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Subject: pagan personality


Author:
Mel
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Date Posted: 31/05/07 11:24

Hi

Don't mean to offend anyone with this but just wondered if you guys all enjoy solitude and are less social/outgoing/partyish than a lot of people you know I have always been someone who does not like regular friday/saturday commitments to social activities but at the same time want friends around me at certain times so it is a balancing act.

My partner and children are similar really, hope that is not my doing. We spend hours together working side by side, silently together.

Obviously friends need investment/nurtuing/watering for them to stick around and I so often don't agree to social engagements when perhaps I should. I can feel drained by them. But is tricky, espcially with my over reliance on the internet/text messages for relationships giving the feeling I am keeping friends happy but realising perhaps I am keeping people at arms length and sometimes it is easy to let my loner nature take over!

What do you think? Maybe it is just me! :)

love Mel xxx

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[> Subject: Re: pagan personality


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paganwolf
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Date Posted: 31/05/07 12:02

Bit of both, I have associates who don't follow my beliefs and those who do, we sometimes interact together anyway. I don't think its condusive or necessary to be one or the other. By nateure, i'm more of a loner but not all the time.

Blessings

Paganwolf )0(

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[> Subject: Re: pagan personality


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newy
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Date Posted: 1/06/07 23:16

bit of both?
funny one this. Suppose I myself fall into every catagory, mainly like to be around people, but i do like time on my own, problem there is i am a single parent of 3.
Typical Librian, need company to shine.
Newy

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