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Subject: Re: gfs from oshawa

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Frontsgirl

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Date Posted: 12:53:03 09/02/10 Thu
In reply to: needing help 's message, "gfs from oshawa" on 03:52:26 08/31/10 Tue

>my bf plays in Oshawa, I am going away to school and I
>have heard some crazy stories and I just wanna know if
>they are just a huge bunch of dirty cheating boys, we
>have been on and off for the last 4 months I honestly
>don't need to be picked on for going back and forth I
>just wanna know the names if my boys is in the list of
>names I know what to do I have my own thoughts but
>advice from someone who has no idea whats going on can
>help

Here is the thing. There are tons of puck bunnies and tons of players who cheat. You have to be secure in your relationship and trust him or it will drive you crazy. If you let it consume you it will end your relationship. You will hear stories about your guy cheating it's up to you if you want to believe them or not. Many stories are just buns making shit up to make it seem like they have been with a player. Some stories are true. You just need to come to an agreement with your bf on how to deal with situations that are getting to you. If there is someone you notice is putting the moves on him then just politely ask him about it. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Many of these girls lie and try to break relationships in the hopes of hooking up with the players. It's sad really. Just trust in the fact that he loves you. Not only that if you are constantly nagging him because of this story or that story that might not even be true then you are shooting yourself in the foot. Just be positive and try not to think about the bad things. That is the only advice I can give you. My bf and I have very open communication. If there is someone on his msn or facebook or cell I know is a slut he lets me take them off. I don't harrass him I just say i don't like that slut and he laughs and removes her.

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Author:
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Date Posted: 12:59:47 09/02/10 Thu

>my bf plays in Oshawa, I am going away to school and I
>have heard some crazy stories and I just wanna know if
>they are just a huge bunch of dirty cheating boys, we
>have been on and off for the last 4 months I honestly
>don't need to be picked on for going back and forth I
>just wanna know the names if my boys is in the list of
>names I know what to do I have my own thoughts but
>advice from someone who has no idea whats going on can
>help

There are usually truths to these stories. It's up to you to believe them or not. Talk to him about it. Don't just believe the stories. Do some of the guys have group sex. Yes! Without a doubt. My bf however, I don't believe is doing that. Has he in the past before we got together Yes. He was honest with me. Remember they all grow up at some point but sometimes their past comes back to haunt them. Talk to him about it. If he says he has never participated in some of the group sex crap in the past he's probably lying. But what he did before you and he got together shouldn't matter. What matters is what he is doing now. Tell him that. He will be more open with you if you approach him like that. Do not accuse him. Ask him. Tell him what he did before doesn't matter its the now that matters and these rumours concern you. But don't just go on the stories like the other girl said. Many are lies.