Date Posted:13:59:09 06/06/11 Mon Author: Ben Subject: Re: If you are here still In reply to:
Margaret
's message, "Re: If you are here still" on 10:59:53 06/06/11 Mon
>Ben, I did it today, when I checked his cleanliness
>after his morning toilet. It was quite enough
>inspection but I had no any pretension. Jack's ears,
>elbows, heels, bottom, penis were clean enough. He has
>no any embarrassment and demonstrated everything with
>real pride. I told him - "excellent! you are really
>independent big boy already!". He smiled with pride.
> Then, I lifted his chin by my left hand, squeezed his
>cheeks with fingers of my right and forced him to
>look into my eyes, and asked him: "Do you love your
>mommy?"
> I saw his eyes little broadened, but he didn't answer
>anything, kissed my cheek and smiled his very childish
>smiling. I hugged and kissed him too and he began to
>take on clothes. It was so.
>Ben, which is your opinion?
>About Jack. He will be pick up by Jessica's father on
>Friday, (June, 10). I hope, he will have nice time,
>and, any case, presence in full family, where father
>(who is strict enough) is charge will be useful for my
>boy.
>
>Ben, I'l be out of home since Saturday, but I hope
>read your answer before it.
>
>My best wishes you and family, and special kiss to
>Vanessa. How about her?
> Margaret
Hello, Margaret,
respect! That was fast answer and action!
According to the book I read the reaction of Jack that you described means that he is too bashful to show emotions and to verbalize them. It's not unusual for a boy of his age but the professional advice means that you as his mother should insist him to speak out what he feels.
Should you repeat this experiment, demand him to answer you verbally. During your daily routine demand him to answer you on questions "in whole sentences".
For example: "Do you understand, my son?"
"Yes."
"Yes, what? Please answer in whole sentences!"
"Yes, mom, I understand."
(I would prefer "Yes, Ma'am, I understand, mom.")
If he avoids answers, always make him look into your eyes and insist on a verbal answer.
So you train him to speak out more what he thinks and it will also raise his respect to you.
Thank you for asking for Vanessa. She is very fine. Her stomach grows bigger and bigger. She is very patient and brave.
About her punishments she described that the slappings and finger canings force her to keep eye contact to Mark while he punishes her. This has strongly heighten their mutual trust.
Margaret, I wish you a fine voyage and to Jack very good holidays.
