I'm aboutas ready to get rid of all real life friends lol grrrrr -- SAY WHAT YOU WANT, AND HAVE A BALL!!!!!

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Date Posted: -12:54--pm, ------ 04/10/08 Thu
Author: Sportyangel
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I'm aboutas ready to get rid of all real life friends lol grrrrr

We have this couple that we hang out with....she has been doing alot of things that just dont sit right with me lately, things that I dont think are nice I guess. For example, I was suppose to take her out for her birthday a while back. She was suppose to call me on her way back from out of town. I waited and waited, no phone call. I tried calling her, always got voicemail. It was almost 9pm the last time I called her. My kids were hungry, and I wanted to be home by the time my husband got home, cause he was on second shift at that time. So my kids and I went ahead and went to eat...figured I'd take her out later, something must have come up. We go to where we are going to eat...and she calls as we are walking in. Says she is home. She had driven right past where we were, (she was riding with someone else), but forgot to turn her phone on and forgot to call. She wanted me to come and get her then. She is a good 25 min drive one way from where we were cause I was on the north end of town, and she is in the country on the south end. I told her it was too late, kids were hungry and we were already here..my husband would be home soon and we could do it another time. She got pissed off at me cause i wouldnt do it then! She is showing a side of her in other ways also of thinking people owe her this and should do this, and what can she get out of it. Well, she had a daughter that she gave away when she was 16. She just was reunited with her within the past couple years. She has 3 children, teenagers at home now. She introduced us to her daughter, she seemed nice. I actually hit it off well with her, she was very easy going and polite. We had tickets to this concert and her husband couldnt go. She couldnt ask her teenagers cause you had to be 21. So i suggested asking her daughter, who was 23. She did and she went. My friend complained how it was too loud, too smokey, her feet hurt, complained about absolutely everything, to a free concert, with a free meal that my husband and I paid for to be nice, and a free ride to Indy. She complained it was gonna be late getting home. Well, she started arguing with her daughter, basically dogging her for no reason. Even calling her a retard. I felt bad for her. I was teasing her about talking to her husband about something and when he called and she got off the phone i said, oh you didnt let me talk to him, and my friend said, that's cause youre being a stupid idiot...OMG! I was pissed and didnt talk to her the rest of the night. She left and her daughter stayed a few minutes, and broke down. SAid she always treats her this way and it wasnt her fault she gave her away and she didnt come looking for her but was willing to give it a shot. Anyway, the next day, my friend calls me, and inquires as to how long her daughter stayed. Then she proceeded to tell me, thather youngest daughter, 16, who we are close to, would be pissed off if I talked to her other daughter anymore, cause she knew us first so I better not talk to her first daughter anymore! WTF????? I am an adult and since when do i let a 16 yr old tell me who to talk to? She is insane, and it's HER DAUGHTER! She introduced us, and I was nice in the beginnning because it was her daughter. Then she proceeded to dog her daughter to me on the phone. I am so aggravated with her. I told her that I love her kids to death, and who I talk to will not affect that at all so her 16 yr old does not need to worry about that. Her 16 yr old daughter gives her hell for even talking to her first daughter, said the first daughter needs to leave them all alone and go back to her own real family. lol...and she lets her! She says she doesnt know how to get her to like the first daughter, but then tells me that when she gets home from the concert the 16 yr old asks her if her first daughter got on her nerves, and my friend said of course she did, pretty much right away. WTF?? No wonder she wont have anything to do with her, if her own mom talks about her like that! So I seen her at church on sunday, my friend, and she would barely speak to me, just a passing hi and walked on. I am so done with fake ass people who are only out for themselves....I dont need it anymore. Have enough of that with my family issues!!!

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Replies:

Yep. -- Pud, - 3:41--pm, ------ 04/10/08 Thu
- It could be far worse... -- Heretic, -12:25--pm, ------ 04/11/08 Fri
  - So -- Hereticfree, - 9:05--am, ------ 04/12/08 Sat
    - Zzzzzzzzz -- Heretic, - 1:00--am, ------ 04/13/08 Sun
Uh-huh, ya, youbetchya. -- sKewL, - 2:19--am, ------ 04/21/08 Mon
- I agree -- One Who Knows, - 6:05--am, ------ 04/21/08 Mon
  - You'll have to forgive Rebel. -- Heretic, - 9:06--am, ------ 04/21/08 Mon