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Date Posted: -12:12--pm, ------ 10/03/06 Tue
Author: Edwin Kitowski
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GET IT OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM
In reply to: C 's message, "HELP!!!! I HAVE A SERIOUS PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!" on - 9:47--pm, ------ 09/14/06 Thu

Sounds like you definitely need to go see this fantasy man in person and tell him your feelings face to face and find out how he feels about you. You are living a fantasy instead of reality. Confront your reality. If he feels the same way about you then you can re-establish your relationship and go on together from that point. If he does not feel the same way about you, then you will have to move on and work on building up your own self-esteem and education. You will need to find someone else, and there are many good people just like Skye in this world if you will just give them a chance to get to know you. If someone cares about you, they will understand whenever you tell them exactly the same thing you have said in this post. If they care about you, they will forgive anything in your past and only care about what you do after you begin a relationship with THEM. But please DO confront your fears and fantasies. You MUST talk to this Skye face to face and tell him EVERYTHING you said in this post and get his feelings towards it all and towards you. If he really cares about you, he will be more than excited to know how much he means to you and if he has any feeling about you he will take the opportunity to begin another relationship with you anew. If he lets you know that there is absolutely no way that there will EVER be any chance of any kind of relationship between the two of you, then at least you know where you stand in his life and you will then know that you have to move on and stop fantasyzing about what will never be. Believe me, if you are 18 years old, there are tons of men out there that would be more than happy to have someone like you in their lives. You can pick and choose. You don't need to be desperate for a boyfriend at age 18.

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