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Date Posted: 11:15:04 06/17/01 Sun
Author: Psalmsong
Subject: Christian and Divorced is a conflict of terms!

I have gone through a divorce. :o( My Ex husband and EX headdeacon of our church...slightly forgot about the "thou shalt nots" in the Bible. He had a girlfriend while married and then divorced me and then married her three months later. And kept seeing her, lying to the courts for 2 years while we were separated. Hello! I asked and others asked him what part of "thou shalt nots" don't you believe in anyway? All the time he'd say "we" are praying about this. Huh??? To who?? A little strange. The Lord has helped in the broken heart department. I and my children from a 22 year marriage are healing each day. The biggest things I learned with this is to keep in prayer and God's Word daily! I know I have to keep my "focus" on only the Lord! I believe(ed) that marriage is/was for life. I never even signed my divorce papers. How can God be so against the divorce and let men who are suppose to be pillars of the church break God's Words and take them and stomp over the Word of God as if it has no meaning anymore? I know sin can blinds people's eyes. I just know if I don't keep my focus on the Lord Jesus then I will fall away from Him, and church, too. I have been at this church 28 years. Married there, children were dedicated there, and it is tough. But, this church is important to my children (and me). But, the memories and a lot of hurts just don't disapear. Well, I have said too much. I guess, I ask for prayer for God to always be first in my life. Thanks for listening!
Psalmsong

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