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Date Posted: 12:12:04 06/17/01 Sun
Author: Psalmsong
Subject: Re: divorced
In reply to: daniel 's message, "divorced" on 20:37:29 04/11/01 Wed

Daniel,
BEEN THERE! Today is my ex's and his Girlfriend (now wife's) anniversary!! YUCK! They saw each other while My ex and I were still married for 2 years and then my ex divorced me and then married her 3 months later. Today is NOT my favorite day of this month! But, it still turns my stomache knowing they are married and he and her sleep together each night. I still want to throw up! (sorry, that is how I feel!) It has been hard for me to let go and all to do with the hurt my ex has given to my heart. 22 years of marriage and 3 childrent that is a lot of "life". The hurts goes deep and I do admit I have thought the same as you about what my feelings are. I didn't fall out of love with my husband. I tried to make my marriage work. HE DID NOT! He mocked at the pastors and councelling ideas and marriage seminars were a joke! To top it all off...HE WAS the HEAD deacon of our church! He was always either a trustee or a deacon. THe perfect "three piece suit" in front of everyone. But, behind closed doors he was emotionally abusive and very unloving. Well, I will pray for you. I know the hurt. And the letting go is hard. Grieving takes time and the Lord has to help you through the heartache. Read the Psalms of David. HE really understands! Keep in the Word!!! and Pray!! Daily!
I will pray.
Psalmsong

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  • Re: divorced -- V. Evans, 15:45:16 05/15/02 Wed
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