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Date Posted: 20:18:40 03/25/09 Wed
Author: Emotional Mom
Subject: Since you all are so good at giving advice-- What do you think of this?

My daughter has been seriously ill for over a year. She is going to be ok but we have spent a lot of time with her doctor. I don't know if it's because I am so thankful to him for "saving" her, but I find myself thinking about him all the time. He is nice looking but not super handsome or anything. He is really kind and funny and there is this reassuring quality about him that I find compelling. I know that this sounds terrible but I have sort of started looking forward to my daughter's doctors appointment so I can see this man.

I think that my feelings are a product of being in such a highly emotional state when dealing with this doctor. We have been though a lot together and I have trusted him with my daughter's life so it has been a very intense relationship with this man. Plus, he is so confident and he makes me feel safe. But, he is my daugther's doctor. I should not be having romantic feelings about this man! Am I crazy? That is the LAST thing that I should be thinking about. But I can not stop thinking about him! I am happily married, though our marriage has been strained with the illness and money problems because of the illness. The doctor has a beautiful wife and kids. I don't have any expectations of us running off together or having any kind of relationship besides doctor/parent of patient. I just keep having these fantasies! What is wrong with me??? I know that ya'll can give good advice and won't hold back!

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Replies:

Restrain yourself, this Dr. was able to help your child & without God blessing this Dr. with the gift to heal your baby wouldn't be with you today (NT) -- Is it worth it to destroy 2 families?, 21:45:31 03/25/09 Wed
My dd's Dr is sexy too lol (NT) -- No name, 06:20:14 03/27/09 Fri
- there are some sexy Dr's on Grey's, just stick to that Fantasy :) and leave the married doc's in real life alone!!! (NT) -- No name, 17:15:36 03/29/09 Sun
Ksks (NT) -- No name, 08:24:46 06/17/10 Thu
Are you kidding me? -- No name, 13:34:30 02/19/12 Sun