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Date Posted: 13:31:58 05/19/09 Tue
Author: gretch
Author Host/IP: 129.137.176.235
Subject: *chuckle*
In reply to: andypandy 's message, "There's no pleasing some people" on 13:06:42 05/19/09 Tue

i was waiting for the "new man" announcement once you mentioned happy and smiley. heh. congrats!

looks like i've got cancer. found out yesterday. meh. i'm gonna live. no worries. they just need to take my thyroid and some lymph nodes out...maybe radiate me a bit...and i'll be golden. not gonna lie...i have small panic attacks when i think about it...it's a very very weird feeling knowing you've something deadly in ya. bizarre. surgery is june 25th. of course...first question out of my mouth was "so...what kinda scar are we talkin' here." *wink* cuz you know vanity comes first.

and i'm going crazy with the twilight books. i mean i really feel like a crazy person. if i hadn't been drunk off my ass yesterday (yeah...i went home after the doctor and got drunk) i would have finished the fourth book. four books in four days. pa...wait for it...thetic.

ps. don't mention the "C" stuff on facebook. i'm not telling extended family that i have cancer...just that i need surgery.

need. coffee.

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[> [> Holy shit gretch -- DZR, 13:42:46 05/19/09 Tue [1] (212.198.136.138)

You sound like you're dealing better with than I would. So the doctor was clear about the prognosis? Some surgery and it'll all be gone? Waiting until the 25th is going to feel like an eternity. I really feel for you. I say just get druk every night from now until then. That is tried and tested coping method, recognised and approved by all good Darren Briertons the world over.


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[> [> Jesus Gretch -- andypandy, 13:51:51 05/19/09 Tue [1] (161.112.232.17)

don't know what to say sweetie, obviously wish you the best and it goes without saying I'll be thinking of you come the 25th, stay strong and (as Mr Brierton says) drink lots!

and won't say anything on Facebook, promise.

*hugs*


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[> [> i have to go every 6 mnths to get blood work done... -- gretch, 14:13:16 05/19/09 Tue [1] (129.137.176.235)

apparently once you get cancer cells in ya...word spreads around that you're an awesome host...so they have to check you every so often to make sure more cells to come back.

but from this particular cancer...it looks good! not thrilled about having a scar on my neck...but i'm hoping i can get away with the whole "bit by my vampire boyfriend" thingy.

but i will be getting drunk a lot...because this whole thing is scary as shiznit!


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[> [> [> oh my god -- Gabs, 20:53:25 05/19/09 Tue [1] (92.107.87.226)

Jesus, gretch. I hope you'll be a terrible hostess.

A friend of mine has a scar right in the middle of her neck from an operation and I seriously didn't notice until she pointed it out. I don't think it's a very noticable place tbh. And there are always creams and stuff to help the healing process.

And I really hope the scarring will be the only problem left to deal with once the surgery is over.

*massive hugs*


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[> [> [> [> i too hope i give up the hostess with the mostest gig. -- gretch, 13:20:24 05/20/09 Wed [1] (129.137.176.235)

yeah...my sis mentioned a cream i could get by prescription. i'm going to look into that.

up side is i'm losin' weight from the stress of it all! *chuckle* i should have just opted for the cancer earlier and skipped the whole lapband surgery thing!

kinda funny...close guy friends at work are blaming everything bitchy i do now on the cancer. ex...i said somethin' bitchtastic yesterday and dan comes back with "gretchen...i think we all know that's the cancer talkin'" he's evil...but i'd rather go that way than be serious about it all.

*hugs*


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[> [> [> [> [> Yup, stay positive! -- Gabs, 15:47:15 05/20/09 Wed [1] (92.107.155.78)

Better to laugh than cry is my motto as well (like when last week while clubbing I met a 33 year old doctor and we were getting along smashingly and then he started dropping hints and when I let him know that I wasn't just going to jump into bed with him, he suddendly decided to go. MEN.)

This Dan must not know you very well in that case. *raspberry* I kid, I kid!


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[> [> [> [> [> [> Yeah men.............. -- andypandy, 17:48:00 05/20/09 Wed [1] (82.30.76.72)

whaddya gonna do with 'em eh? ;-)


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[> [> [> [> [> [> I would just like you to know that ... -- DZR, 22:30:57 05/20/09 Wed [1] (83.157.185.211)

... I exerted a Herculean effort and managed to suppress any snarky remarks. I hope you're impressed.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Stop it your turning me on! ;-) -- andypandy (who is most impressed), 11:15:35 05/21/09 Thu [1] (161.112.232.22)

anyway, I like your snarky remarks!!


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> *backs away from Andy* -- DZR, 13:25:00 05/21/09 Thu [1] (212.198.136.138)

The snarky remarks I was suppressing were in relation to Gabs' older doctor disappointment, but I'm pleased you got some mileage out of the whole thing!


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> *sigh* just ignore me -- andypandy, 14:14:10 05/21/09 Thu [1] (161.112.232.36)


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[> [> Sounds like you're gonna kick it's ass. -- Kashmanik, 16:35:47 05/19/09 Tue [1] (82.28.217.169)

Best attitude to have, I reckon. Just remember we've got your back. :-)


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[> [> [> *hugs* love ya, ian. -- gretch, 13:16:47 05/20/09 Wed [1] (129.137.176.235)


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