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Subject: Re: Tired of the Script

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Date Posted: 07:13:44 09/23/15 Wed
In reply to: 's message, "Tired of the Script" on 21:09:43 09/22/15 Tue

I think you make some good points. Many girls spend more competing and training than they ever win. But that is the chance they take. We spend thousands on our sons for sports, camps, lessons, equipment, travel teams, uniforms, travel expenses and neither played past high school. They wanted to but they were not good enough. They played intramural sports and fraternity sports and now still play some with friends or church league and city league. We would have loved if they got a college scholarship. But we would do it all again. And we are middle class not wealthy. The friends they made and the life lessons they made were worth every penny. Plus, it was a family adventure with them. Our daughter did dance and piano and fell in love with pageants after doing Junior Miss. So although she did not grow up with them from high school on she was hooked. She loved making friends, she loved performing, her interview skills are far superior to her brothers and all three were excellent students and graduated with honors but my sons had NO interview practice. She did. She only made top ten at Miss Alabama once and she won scholarship money at locals and at Miss Alabama all three years. She won in kind scholarships and that was huge. She would never have received those had she not competed. When we added up what we spent on pageants one time (wardrobe, coaching, training, etc.) she earned more than we spent. (We sold her wardrobe the month after she gave up her last title. She kept one gown that she altered into a cocktail dress. No, when you add up all her training for years she did not earn more than that but she never took those lessons to be in a pageant. She was doing that while her brothers played ball. We would do it all again. We might spend a little less the first year if we were starting over again. When I know people competing now I tell them to borrow and rent and buy second hand from girls again out. Then if they continue on they can buy designer gowns or whatever. And the interview dresses they were now are way less expensive than the suits our daughter wore.

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Date Posted: 09:08:39 09/23/15 Wed

So many careers require a person to be comfortable in front of others with all eyes on the individual - like teachers , sales, news anchors, lawyers, doctors, nurses, pharmacist, entertainers, engineers - well every career does. This program requires the participant to be comfortable in front of others, it teaches how to handle being told no, and that success comes out of effort. Great friendships are made and yes not everyone gets a crown which is refreshing in this era of entitlement . The participants here find value in the process well beyond their years of competition. Not everyone wants to experience what pageants offer and that's fine, enjoy what makes you happy. .

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