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• I'm sorry to hear this. If you both want it to work, then find someone for you to talk to. I'm not really a good one to give advice, obviously, but know I'm praying for you. (NT) -- TanyaB, 07:16:34 02/09/10 Tue
• I think it happens at one point or another in any marriage, even in the strong ones because after several years together, it is hard to keep romance and novelty alive through kids, work and life. >>>> DH and I went through this only a couple of years ago, I know ... inside >>> -- IsabelleKiltup (), 07:35:23 02/09/10 Tue
• (((Anon))). I agree with what Isabelle said, I think every marriage goes through rocky patches- we've been through a few. I don't know what your situation is, but you need to make more time for each other and decide if you are comfortable with going to see a counsellor. They can give you ideas and ways to communicate that you might never think of on your own. I think it's important to be able to have a real talk with one another, without recriminations and with the space to be able to say what you're feeling honestly, but nicely too. >>>> -- celtgirl (), 08:00:07 02/09/10 Tue
  • Well you see, you already have two examples of the very same situation, so it's not uncommon! The thing I realized during all this, was that a marriage is a work always in progress. It's really hard to be married. It's just that we don't realize it, having a tendancy to think that it's a 'done' deal. But boy, it takes time and effort to make it last. (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup (), 08:05:19 02/09/10 Tue
  • Thanks everyone. We both know that it's both of us, but there's one huge issue that is the major stumbling block and it's going to take counseling to get through it. If that doesn't work, then I really don't know what to do. (NT) -- Anon, 09:40:04 02/09/10 Tue
  • 'A work in progress' is exactly it! After almost 30 years, we have had many ups and downs and I realize that you can never be complacent. It takes constant effort to keep things moving in the right direction, because it is so easy to slack off and assume the other person will compensate. Of course, that's selsom the truth, and both must make an effort. (NT) -- Denise, 09:42:06 02/09/10 Tue
• ((((Anon))) I'm not married but can empathize. I think a relationship does take work to keep going. Perhaps if you both aren't sure of how to handle it, you could see a counsellor. It's ok and it's healthy and sometimes a third eye with an objective look at a situaion can be beneficial in terms of helping you both focus on what the problems are and then finding solutions and resolutions that fit theboth of you. (((Anon))) (NT) -- Tracy, 08:29:58 02/09/10 Tue
• ((((Anon)))) I don't have very much advice to give you other than what the ladies above said. Marriage is hard work. Keeping love alive is not easy and takes the effort of both parties like Isabelle said. I love my husband very much and he loves me, but we have hit some very rocky patches over the years when we didn't like each other very much. Communication is key, and if you have stopped doing that, then seek counseling. Good luck, I hope you can both work it out. (NT) -- Rebecca, 08:54:40 02/09/10 Tue
  • What if communication does not work even with counseling? (NT) -- Anon-2, 09:55:05 02/09/10 Tue
    • Then I think you have to ask yourself the really tough question which is- 'is what we have worth saving?' Honestly, I don't know how you proceed if you really can't communicate- and that's not a judgement, it's just how things are sometimes and I get that. It has taken years to get my DH to actually be honest about how he's feeling- I don't always like the results of that either, if I'm being honest. (NT) -- celtgirl, 10:12:21 02/09/10 Tue
• I too am in a rocky patch. Every situation is different. But you are definitely not alone ((anon))) (NT) -- Anon-2, 09:26:44 02/09/10 Tue
• (((Anon and Anon-2))) I don't have much advice as I've only been married 5 years and so far things have been good. We have outside issues that we bicker about but the core love is there. I just take some quiet time to regroup and refocus that at the end of the day, not matter what, this is the man I love and can't live without. Money issues, work and the day to day crap doesn't matter. If you chip away all the junk is this the man you love and is it worth fighting for. I don't know what the problems are and there are some issues that are unforgivable in my book so you need to ask yourself some tough questions. Is it forgivable, can you work through it and at the end of the day do you love this man fully and unconditionally? I'm sorry you're both struggling. (NT) -- Noelle....where the heck is my head!!?, 11:50:27 02/09/10 Tue

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• Oh Peggy, that brought tears to my eyes. I'm so glad you went, I'm sure it was as good for you and somewhat healing, as it was for her. Knowing even a little of what you have been through these past few years, I think it's really important that you had a good and special time with her. You're a good daughter, never forget that. I'm sure she has always known that too, where it matters, in her heart. (NT) -- celtgirl, 15:42:34 02/06/10 Sat
• So glad you had a good visit with your mom, Peggy. It's hard when hurtful things are said and done, but important to remember that it is her illness talking and not her true self. (NT) -- Carla, 16:10:55 02/06/10 Sat
• Awww Peggy, so glad you were able to visit for her birthday and that it was a good visit for both of you! Great pictures too, what a beautiful lady Bobbie is! (NT) -- Mahri, 16:15:20 02/06/10 Sat
• Sweet pictures! Looks like she was having a good day and I'm glad you got to spend the day with her. (NT) -- Lil, 18:25:53 02/06/10 Sat
• Those are lovely photos, and you're one fine daughter, Peggy. (NT) -- E, 21:38:14 02/06/10 Sat
• I'm so very pleased that you had a good visit and felt the effort worthwhile. I can't imagine what it would be like to have a mom who didn't know me. Coincidentally, today was my mom's 84th birthday and we went to see 'Avatar' and she came back to the house for dinner with some neighbourhood friends. It was a good day here too. BTW, you're looking trimmer Peggy! (NT) -- Denise, 22:47:03 02/06/10 Sat
• How lovely, Peggy! I understand how hard it is to watch our loved ones fade away. my mom has been on my mind alot these past few weeks. So glad you took the time to see her, you'll not regret it! (NT) -- LadyDuBois, 08:23:01 02/07/10 Sun
• Wonderful pictures, Peggy, I'm glad you had such a nice time. (NT) -- Noelle, 14:07:57 02/07/10 Sun
• Great pictures Peggy, I'm glad you were with your Mom for her birthday! (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 17:31:46 02/07/10 Sun
• Thank you for sharing, Peggy. Your mother looks like a lovely woman and I am so sorry for the troubles over the past few years. It was so nice of her neighbor and guardian and trustees to come to see her too. (NT) -- 'becca, 17:55:52 02/07/10 Sun

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• Oh Isabelle, I'm so sorry, you must be really stressed over this. I am absolutely sure your husband is right; it needs removal, but doesn't present a dire emergency. I do wish I had words to help you feel better immediately. A month is a long time to think about this. As best you can, I hope you are able to go about your daily life without dwelling too heavily on this. Easier said than done, I know. Praying for you, friend - for your physical AND emotional health! (NT) -- E, 20:13:01 02/04/10 Thu
• Good vibes and healing thoughts coming your way, Isabelle. I know you believe it things that cannot be seen, so know that all that energy is coming to you from all of us, to make it all go well. (NT) -- celtgirl, 22:48:06 02/04/10 Thu
• (((((((dear Isabelle!))))))) (NT) -- 'b, 05:56:55 02/05/10 Fri
• ((((Isabelle)))) I'm sure it will all be fine, I agree with your DH, if they were worried about it they'd get you in sooner. I know this is the worst kind of skin cancer but they caught it early. Though it's VERY scary to think you have something like this growing in/on your body, it might be that it's not fast growing...in other words they know it's not going to change much in a months time. My SIL has had 3 different melanoma surgeries and gets checked frequently now, she is fine. Easier said than done but try not to worry, they will cut it out and get rid of it then re-check more often than once a year. You're being pro-active and Thank God you and they caught it early! Hugs and calming vibes to you! (NT) -- Mahri, 06:37:30 02/05/10 Fri
• Oh Isa I am sorry to hear this. Maybe you could ask if it could be postponed so DH could be with you. I think you need support! BUT the positive side many people have this surgery and are fine! Its one of the easiest I've hear. (((((((ISABELLE)))))))) (NT) -- BetsyG, 07:39:38 02/05/10 Fri
• Well, I can certainly relate to the stress and anxiety of wondering and waiting, Isa. Many, many prayers and vibes that they get it all. It's really a good thing that they found it in the early stage. (((((Isabelle)))) (NT) -- Aislinn (), 07:55:22 02/05/10 Fri
• (((Isabelle))) Any type of health scare is harder to cope with on your own, for sure. I believe, as the others said, that if it was truly a desperate situation, they would schedule the surgery quickly. The waiting is no fun, though. Will Jim be back home by the time of the surgery? (NT) -- Carla, 09:23:33 02/05/10 Fri
• ((((Isa))) glad they caught it when they did. there are so many new advances in skin cancer its amazing. all will be well my friend. (NT) -- CindyS, 09:59:40 02/05/10 Fri
• I'm sending lots of prayers and healing vibes to you, Isabelle. I'm sorry you have to wait so long. I'm hoping the month speeds by for you and you're not too stressed. (((Isabelle))) (NT) -- Noelle, 10:47:41 02/05/10 Fri
• I'm sure the Dr is being proactive in taking care of this now, and the month's wait will be fine. I feel for you though! (((Isa))) (NT) -- Denise, 11:39:39 02/05/10 Fri
• Sending calming vibes your way.... I hope an earlier appointment comes up so you don't have to wait so long... ((((( Isa ))))) (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 11:47:57 02/05/10 Fri
• Thank you everyone for your support. I've been quite busy with helping students at my kids high school getting ready with their coming French exam, so I didn't have much time to think about it... Of course I came home and thought of hundred questions I didn't ask the nurse when she called yesterday because I was in shock. Of course it was 1 pm and they close at noon on fridays. A nice long week-end ahead of me! DH plans on being here of course, it's just that he doesn't know his schedule until the very end of the previous month but should be able to get the time off. It's just that I wish he were with me right now, he makes this sound not too alarming. I'm rather new at this and didn't know anyone with that so yes, I'm a little under shock. But thank you, your thoughts and support is really nice to see when I come here. Big hugs to all! (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup (), 12:05:07 02/05/10 Fri
  • Write your questions down as they occur to you Isabelle so you'll have them to hand when you call the clinic on Monday. (NT) -- Carla, 13:51:57 02/05/10 Fri
  • (((Isa))) I'm a little late, but sending hugs, calming vibes and lots of prayers your way! (NT) -- Lil, 17:30:55 02/05/10 Fri
• (((Isabelle) My thoughts are echoed above. I'll be thinking of you! (NT) -- Tracy, 21:52:26 02/05/10 Fri
• Your DH has a good point, so at this stage, don't worry and just have faith and trust in the docs and you'll be fine. Many hugs to you and keep us posted... we'll send lots of calming vibes for you! (NT) -- Ren, 08:51:19 02/06/10 Sat
  • Echoing what Ren said. (((Isabelle))) (NT) -- PeggyB, 15:07:30 02/06/10 Sat
    • I should add, I went through this myself once. In my case the doctor was adamant about getting the biopsy done ASAP, and it still turned into nothing. Try to stay calm, I know it is hard. (NT) -- PeggyB, 15:30:30 02/06/10 Sat
• Isabelle, so sorry to so late but sending you vibes of all sorts. I know you will worry no matter what we say though, but we are all praying it is fine for you. (NT) -- Sheila, 15:59:08 02/06/10 Sat
• (((((Isabelle))))) It is a very good thing you were checked and hopefully my similar experience will give you some comfort. I too had an early stage melanoma removed from my stomach when I was 24. I had the area re-excised (meaning they took out all the flesh around it) and it was all fine and normal. I am just fine now 16 years later. I have a check up every year and I stay out of the sun, but I am healthy otherwise. I know the word melanoma is very scary, but if caught early and removed, it is all okay. (NT) -- Rebecca, 17:54:32 02/06/10 Sat
  • Thank you Rebecca, your message makes me feel a little better. Hey sorry all if I don't show up too much, I'm ok, but I go through little moments of fear, so I don't come on the internet, I'm scared to read something I don't want to read. I didn't know anything at all about this, and I still don't know anything, I'm being the ostrich until I get to call the doc and ask questions. So, it scared the heck out of me when I read too much info put not intentionally! (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 17:34:42 02/07/10 Sun
• UPDATE : They got a cancellation so they are taking me in for surgery on Feb 17th instead of March 3rd. After a long agonizing week-end, I finally got some answers to my questions. It is very early stage so, no a couple of weeks waiting would not make the difference and they would of course move me up if they had a cancellation. So I'm relieved, at least for now. (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 08:16:52 02/09/10 Tue
  • Thanks for sharing your good update, glad to hear you won't have to wait as long! (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 08:56:35 02/09/10 Tue

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• On the lighter side (warning girly tmi)>>>> -- CindyS, 11:26:04 02/04/10 Thu
  • ((( CindyS ))) funny story! that would be me too if I ever tried waxing. Hugs and good vibes for your surgery tomorrow, when will you get to go home? Hope it's quick! (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 11:31:54 02/04/10 Thu
  • Awww...Cindy, I bet you're as nervous as can be right now. Just take some deep breaths and try to relax - I know easier said than done. (((Cindy))) My big concern prior to my surgery was that my ass was going to be hanging out for all to see in that operating room. I begged the nurse to *please, please* keep everything covered as much as possible. I kept my underwear on and wouldn't take it off and told the nurse to cut them off when I was in place. She promised she would. She was very sweet and kind. I was in tears with the thought of my ass hanging out. I saw pictures of the surgery table I was on, on the internet, and they (and me) were on their stomachs and their bums were raised up in the air. Funnily, after the surgery I didn't care who the hell saw me as long as they had drugs in their hands. You'll do great and being in such good shape with really help in your recovery. I'm sending lots of good vibes, prayers and hugs. (NT) -- Noelle, 12:44:05 02/04/10 Thu
  • Cindy, they're going to give you this little drip in your IV tomorrow and you won't give a hoot as to who sees what, lemme tell ya! Why, you might even invite some onlookers! Shouldn't have bothered with the wax job (funny story, though!) as they drape everything except the incision site. All will be well, and you'll be home again before you know it. Do whatever they tell you in terms of recovery, and go about it slowly. You don't want to tear that newly repaired tissue. (NT) -- E, 13:31:25 02/04/10 Thu
  • Oh geez, that's funny! Here's hoping it's a breeze and you're all fixed up! (NT) -- Denise, 16:27:21 02/04/10 Thu
  • ((((Cindy))))) I hope things tomorrow go well and that you kind find some peace tonight to sleep. I can imagine your energy level right now...I know I'd be the same. Take care and let us know how its going. Will you be in the hospital or is it a one day thing? (NT) -- Lil, 19:15:52 02/04/10 Thu
  • Oh, that is such a sweet/funny storry. I'll be thinking about you.(((((((cindy))))))) (NT) -- 'b, 05:58:38 02/05/10 Fri
• Will keep you in my thoughts tomorrow girl!! Hope the surgery goes well and like Elaine said you won't even know or care who's seeing your who-ha *g* Too funny about the wax job - you a brave girl I'm too chicken to try that! (NT) -- Mahri, 16:09:23 02/04/10 Thu
• big time vibes coming your way, babe!! (NT) -- Renfro, 16:39:52 02/04/10 Thu
• I'm crossing my fingers for you Cindy and hope everything goes well and you don't worry! It is a cute and funny story Cindy 'g'. If it makes you feel any better, the week-end my daughter was born at the hospital in Newport, RI, it was so dead quiet, only baby born the whole Columbus day week/end, so every student was eager to assist, I ended up with 15 people in the birthing room, to tell you the truth, I didn't care, who knows, the janitor might have been there too, I just simply didn't care! 'g' (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup (), 19:39:10 02/04/10 Thu
• (((Cindy)))- good vibes that all goes well with your surgery and that you have a quick recovery. (NT) -- celtgirl, 22:49:13 02/04/10 Thu
• I'm a day late and you've probably already had the surgery, but hopefully you'll read this when you get home. I'm sending vibes for a successful operation and a speedy recovery. And those HS students won't have seen anothing other than your hip as all other bits of you will be well-draped in a flattering blue sheeting :) (NT) -- Carla, 09:26:49 02/05/10 Fri
• Thanks for the positive vibes. Sorry I'm being such a baby but after that MOHS procedure needles, OR's and the like jut freak me out. Anyway....we're outta here. Surgery's at noon but have paperwork to do - what the world do without paperwork :) (NT) -- CindyS, 10:01:24 02/05/10 Fri
  • Back Home -- CindyS's Husband, 17:50:11 02/05/10 Fri
    • Thanks so much for updating us Andrew and even making a joke in there!! Glad to hear she's doing well and I hope that she's up and about in no time. (NT) -- celtgirl, 17:56:22 02/05/10 Fri
    • Great news! Please tell her I was thinking of her all day today. When it comes to medication, she needs to stay ahead of the pain, don't let it get a strong hold before taking her next dose. (NT) -- E, 21:14:59 02/05/10 Fri
    • Thanks for the update, we appreciate it! (NT) -- Denise, 22:15:20 02/05/10 Fri
    • (((Cindy))) Hope you're back on your feet in no time! (NT) -- PeggyB, 15:31:46 02/06/10 Sat
• CIndy, glad to hear that you are home and resting and self-medicating should be fun ;). Hugs to you and hope you are back to hiking soon. (NT) -- Tracy, 21:49:23 02/05/10 Fri
• I wanna see how you type if you are self medicating*g* Be strong and don't rush it, take the time to heal properly! (NT) -- Sheila, 16:01:48 02/06/10 Sat

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• Betsy her poor nose looks so sore. Sending vibes for you both. (NT) -- Sheila, 06:37:04 02/03/10 Wed
• I posted on FB, Betsy. She should be able to eat, drink and go out with the collar on. Poor Seamus had the collar on for 3 weeks after his eye surgery. We couldn't take it off him and he went into his crate with it on. They don't like it but do get used to it. She'll figure out how to do things with it on. (((Tara))) (NT) -- Noelle, 06:54:02 02/03/10 Wed
• Poor Tara!! I just can't imagine what is still alive out there that could've bitten her like this! Again, hope it heals quickly! (NT) -- Mahri, 06:57:04 02/03/10 Wed
• Oh dear, that's an awful story. I hope it heals quickly, and that Tara soon learns to ignore it. Poor baby. (NT) -- E, 07:03:30 02/03/10 Wed
• Did the vet have any idea of what she might have gotten into? It almost looks chemical, from the photos. (((Tara))) (NT) -- PeggyB, 07:22:36 02/03/10 Wed
  • yeah Peggy thats what I thought - it looked chemical CANNOT figure out what it could be though. I have pet safe salt down but we've had that down ALL winter. Maybe road chemicals but the roads were dry on Monday. (NT) -- BetsyG, 14:07:09 02/03/10 Wed
    • It looks like it is only on the top of the nose, right? Did he stick his snout under a wire fence? Did one of the other dog owners spray him with pepper spray or something? Very curious what the vet thought of it. Another possibility I thought of, but surely the vet would have checked, is porcupine. (NT) -- PeggyB, 15:56:10 02/03/10 Wed
      • NO porcupine! I would have seen that. No fences no pepper spray. Snout to snouts with the other dogs but that is it. AND the thing is she never rubbed it until AFTER we got home that was a mile after meeting the other dogs! The vet thinks it was dog bite (NT) -- BetsyG (), 17:58:13 02/03/10 Wed
        • Very strange, I sure hope she's feeling better. (NT) -- PeggyB, 19:52:02 02/03/10 Wed
• I can't see FB on this computer but just from your descriptions I was wondering if she got some road salt up her "schnoot" and went crazy trying to rub it off? Poor furbaby!! (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 07:40:45 02/03/10 Wed
• Oh poor girl- I can't believe how raw her nose looks in the photos. I hope she heals up soon, so she can get rid of her collar. (NT) -- celtgirl, 11:57:08 02/03/10 Wed
• Poor Betsy and her baby! I hope she heals quickly! (NT) -- Denise, 18:54:00 02/03/10 Wed
• ((((((betsy's baby))))))) I thought your life was supposed to be getting LESS eventful. (NT) -- 'becca, 07:07:57 02/04/10 Thu
• (((((Tara)))) Hope she's doing better today. (NT) -- CindyS, 10:50:19 02/04/10 Thu
• Betsy I haven't got a chance to go on FB so I didn't know about the extend of her injuries. I'm so sorry for your fur baby! You know how after years of saying 'No pet', I've become so attached to my doggie that I sometimes believe she came out of my womb! 'g' So I think of your Tar and feel bad for her and I know I would be very distraught if it was mine! (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 19:28:42 02/04/10 Thu
• Another late post for me, but I hope Tara is on the mend and the poor thing is getting used to her ecollar. And some hugs for her worried mom. (NT) -- Carla, 09:29:22 02/05/10 Fri
• Some folks have asked for update so as of Friday-still oozing blood and swollen called the vet and now she is on Prednisone too. She has conked out after I gave it to her poor thing! But I am glad she is sleeping, the cone is driving her nuts and now snow in the forcast when I let her out in the snow she just scoops it up in the cone trying to smell for a spot to go! (NT) -- BetsyG, 12:22:41 02/05/10 Fri
  • Oh poor Tara! Betsy, if she has to keep the cone on for a while,you should consider buying a soft one. That's what I had bought for Coco after her spaying and it made such a difference, at least she could sleep better. (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 12:31:39 02/06/10 Sat

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• Well darn. If it weren't for the tears, you could probably get by with PT. But the tears will likely mean surgery, I'm guessing (not a doctor). I have issues in my neck, arthritic buildup tends to pinch the nerves, and surgery was an option for me, but I have thus far been able to manage it with PT and posture. Be sure to let us know what the doctor says tomorrow. Guess the fever issue is coincidental....maybe you're having hot flashes! Welcome to the club **D&R** (NT) -- PeggyB, 10:36:36 02/01/10 Mon
• Well, I think there are some good things in the findings - there is no stenosis and the facets are still there just with changes. I hope they just suggest PT for now and not surgery. Maybe they could do a steriod injection to help with the pain. Please, let surgery be the VERY LAST thing you do. (((Ren))) Good luck tomorrow!! (NT) -- Noelle, 11:17:38 02/01/10 Mon
  • Another good point is "no canal narrowing", so the space that the spinal cord goes through is ok. Good luck, Ren! (NT) -- FranS, 12:54:19 02/01/10 Mon
• At least now you know the details. I don't understand these things very well, but am praying you can avoid anything that's really invasive. Thanks for keeping us posted; you're still in my prayers! (NT) -- E, 11:45:24 02/01/10 Mon
• Let us know when you get all that translated. Good luck tomorrow. (NT) -- Rebecca, 15:24:18 02/01/10 Mon
• Good vibes for tomorrow, I hope it's not too complicated and you'll be out roaring around on Myrtle when the spring comes. (NT) -- celtgirl, 15:33:06 02/01/10 Mon
• Not sure what it all means but hope that you will soon have relief from the pain. (((((Dena)))) (NT) -- Aislinn, 20:00:28 02/02/10 Tue
• I hope the docs are able to give you a clear explanation of what it all means, what the treatment is and the prognosis. It doesn't sound too bad, though. (NT) -- Carla, 20:03:18 02/02/10 Tue
• Awww Ren, I'm sorry you have the herniations. I have the same, but mine are at L5 and S1. I did PT, which helped a little, but when they told me surgery was my only chance of pain relief, I went looking elsewhere. I went from daily pain to no pain and have been pain free for almost 3 years now, thanks to a wonderful chiropractor. After your MD appointment, make sure to check out all of your options before making any decisions. Hugs and healing vibes are on the way ((((((((((Ren)))))))) (NT) -- Whiskey Eyes, 05:43:45 02/03/10 Wed
• oh gosh I hope it means you can make a full recovery! Hugs! (NT) -- BetsyG, 06:10:58 02/03/10 Wed
• I hope it all goes well, and you get some immediate relief from the pain once you get the shot. (NT) -- celtgirl, 12:05:35 02/03/10 Wed
• (((Dena))) All the best for a pain-free back. (NT) -- Denise, 18:52:02 02/03/10 Wed
• (((((((dena))))))) That'll learn you to use the fireman's carry on those motorcycles! (NT) -- 'becca, 07:09:39 02/04/10 Thu
• (((((Ren)))) Hopefully you'll get an answer for pain relief soon. Meanwhile take it easy as best you can. (NT) -- CindyS, 10:57:25 02/04/10 Thu

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• Well, I guess you are getting well aquainted with the late night television guys. (((((((Aislinn))))))) (NT) -- 'b, 19:45:04 01/27/10 Wed
• I'm so glad to hear that the x-rays are looking good, that is fantastic news, indeed- so the update is not boring in the least. Sending fairy dust and vibes for you everyday and thinking I ought to send some sleepy dust your way too. (NT) -- celtgirl, 19:55:27 01/27/10 Wed
• You bet your sweet patootie we want to be kept updated! I'd take the "speed" over nausea, but I realize neither is enjoyable. Overall it sounds like you're doing great, keep it up!! (NT) -- PeggyB, 20:35:37 01/27/10 Wed
• Oh, I'm so happy to hear the update. Glad things are looking good. I'm praying and sending tons of vibes all will be well in 8 weeks. I hope you can get some sleep. Like Peggy said - you're doing great and I'm thinking about you!!! Hugs!! (((Karen))) (NT) -- Noelle, 20:42:34 01/27/10 Wed
• I'm glad to hear your news, and it sounds so promising. Keep up the good fight! (NT) -- Denise, 21:12:56 01/27/10 Wed
• ((((Aislinn)))) I'm glad that things are looking well and I will keep sending vibes for a great report in 8 weeks. (NT) -- LadyDuBois, 04:17:25 01/28/10 Thu
• You don't bore us Karen, I'm glad to hear how you are doing. I don't usually ask because I don't like to intrude on what could be private, but I'm always glad to hear about how things are going. You are always in my thoughts! (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 05:46:19 01/28/10 Thu
• So glad you dropped by to update us, Karen. Finding out how a dear friend is doing is never boring. I'm glad the chemo is wrapping up and that the x-rays are looking good. You're in my thoughts every day and there's a steady stream of fairy dust traveling from Toronto to Guelph :) ((((Karen)))) (NT) -- Carla, 06:02:08 01/28/10 Thu
• Oh Karen, I'm so glad to hear the Xrays are looking good and that you are almost done with the treatment. Never would we be bored silly with hearing about your progress, very glad you gave us an update! You have my thoughts and prayers everyday and a boatload of love & hugs surrounds you! (((Karen))) (NT) -- Mahri, 07:38:15 01/28/10 Thu
• Thanks so much for keeping us posted. A good report - will be praying for the coming 8 weeks. Take good care of yourself, Aislinn. You've been in my thoughts and prayers everyday, honest. (NT) -- E, 09:09:58 01/28/10 Thu
• So glad your in the home stretch of treatment. And that's wonderful about the x-rays. Keep up the good fight. One more thought>>> -- CindyS, 12:46:27 01/28/10 Thu
  • Thanks Cindy. Yes, my kids are grown and gone. DD just turned 30 and DS will soon be 28. I'm not sure which picture you are talking about but I suspect that it's a matter of chubby face pushing out the wrinkles. LOL Thanks anyway. (NT) -- Aislinn (), 17:39:29 01/28/10 Thu
    • NO WAY!!!! Your daughter is 30?????? I don't believe it!!! Where does the time go???? (NT) -- PeggyB, 21:42:28 01/28/10 Thu
      • Well, Karen was apparently a child-bride and a mom at about 13 :) (NT) -- Carla, 08:07:32 01/29/10 Fri
      • Peggy, I keep asking myself that same question. Too funny Carla. LOL (NT) -- Aislinn (), 08:54:42 01/29/10 Fri
    • the picture with the cousins. I swear you look 30 in that pic. All I know is I want your skin care regiment b/c it is soooo working for you (NT) -- CindyS, 08:49:26 01/29/10 Fri
      • I'm actually about 47 in that pic and I don't actually have a skin care regime and only started using moisturer about a year or so ago. I think it's just genetics and an oily complextion. My Mom looks really youthful too. (NT) -- Aislinn, 08:57:37 01/29/10 Fri
        • Of course I agree you are gorgeous and that's likely genetic but I also think you have something there with the oily skin comment. I tell my other girlfriends that yes, oily breakouts are bad now but when you see me in 30 more years with my dry skin all pruned up & wrinkly, you will be glad because you will look beautiful and fresh! (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 09:09:58 01/29/10 Fri
• KICK THAT CANCER ASS!! (NT) -- Ren, 15:48:41 01/28/10 Thu
• Thanks so much for all your support guys. I sure have been counting and appreciating all your support during this time. (NT) -- Aislinn (), 17:40:49 01/28/10 Thu
  • Sorry, I'm a bit late, but I have been thinking of you and hoping all has been going well. Glad the scans are looking good. I hope this is your last week EVER on chemo and that you can get back to normal life soon. ((((Aislinn)))) (NT) -- Lil, 21:04:24 01/28/10 Thu
• Have been thinking of you (((Aislinn) (NT) -- Tracy, 07:40:26 01/29/10 Fri
• Karen, thank you for letting us know how you are doing. It is not boring to us. I am so happy for you and your family that your tests are looking positive. Stay strong through this last round. (NT) -- Rebecca, 05:50:17 01/30/10 Sat
• I am so pleased your x-rays look good and hope that continues. You have so many people sending postive vibes into cyber space and supporting you, and we all want to know how you are doing but don't want to ask. (NT) -- Sheila, 03:32:28 01/31/10 Sun

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• Hoping and praying for a good diagnosis!!! (NT) -- PeggyB, 10:50:36 01/27/10 Wed
  • I'll second that. (NT) -- celtgirl, 10:58:55 01/27/10 Wed
• Thinking about you today, Ren. Give a shout out when you get the results. (NT) -- Noelle, 11:11:29 01/27/10 Wed
• REN REN REN! (((((((renfro))))))) (NT) -- 'b, 13:17:07 01/27/10 Wed
• Yes - all the best for your test Ren....will be thinking about you and sending relaxing vibes! (NT) -- Mahri, 14:02:36 01/27/10 Wed
• I'll join in the chorus, too! It really concerns me that Ren has had a fever off and on, on top of the back pain. (NT) -- E, 16:35:31 01/27/10 Wed
• Sending you tons of emerald green fairy dust that it's nothing serious and easily remedied. (NT) -- Carla, 18:22:33 01/27/10 Wed
• My thoughts will be with you Renfro! (((Ren and Angel))) (NT) -- Tracy, 18:25:59 01/27/10 Wed
• Good luck Ren. (NT) -- Aislinn, 19:06:42 01/27/10 Wed
• (((Dena))) (NT) -- Denise, 21:14:06 01/27/10 Wed
• Oh good luck yes! (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 05:47:35 01/28/10 Thu
• Soooo....how'd it go? (NT) -- Mahri, 07:39:01 01/28/10 Thu
• Dang, forgot about this board; thanks Cindy! MRI went very quick, but won't know the results till likely Monday. From the urinalysis the Doc did Monday, I'm guessing it wasn't a UTI as he thought, but they haven't called me, either. Had one round of fever today, two yesterday, so I don't know wtf is up with that. But it's low-grade, so dunno. Thanks for the vibes! (NT) -- Ren, 15:47:37 01/28/10 Thu
  • Oooow....that's a long time to wait for the results!! I didn't realize that you've been having a fever, as well. Maybe it's a kidney infection? I'm continuing to send loads of good vibes!! (NT) -- Noelle, 18:22:48 01/28/10 Thu
    • I had a kidney infection last year, it felt like I had glass in my back- just in case that's anything like your back was feeling. (NT) -- celtgirl, 19:53:22 01/28/10 Thu
• SOB! I'm back on the cane today... have no idea what I did to piss it off again. Had another fever this morning, too. Still waiting to hear on the MRI. I just want it fixed fast, riding season is right around the corner!! (NT) -- Renfro, 10:11:00 01/29/10 Fri
  • lab results on the u-test are back, I have no kidney infection or UTI. Since I'm still obviously having the fever off and on, I have to follow back up. Dang. (NT) -- Renfro, 10:45:49 01/29/10 Fri
    • (((( Ren ))))) hope you get some answers soon so you can start to feel better and get back to doing the stuff you love! (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 12:57:17 01/29/10 Fri
    • Are you going back to the doctor's on Monday? I'm worried about that fever. I hope they can figure this out quickly and get you on the road to healing. (NT) -- Noelle, 12:22:51 01/30/10 Sat
      • Me, too. A fever seems to imply an infection of some sort going on. Ren, I sure hope you get some answers soon. (NT) -- E, 14:14:31 01/30/10 Sat

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• ((( TanyaB and family ))) sorry to hear it's been even worse than you expected -- hang in there! Hope you can stay calm to support your boys and the H. Maybe there's a Dear Abby line you can use repeatedly on the SIL "I can't believe you thought it was appropriate to make all these decisions without discussing it" or "I can't believe you told family business to strangers before H" or something that epresses how you feel but puts the burden back on her for her bad behavior. Hugs!! (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 05:14:34 01/27/10 Wed
• Oh, Tanya, I feel for you. I refuse to go to my DH's families funerals for many of the reasons you stated and he is fully supportive. In her defense, your SIL probably understood that her brother would be of little help and just bypassed him to avoid trouble, but it was done very badly. I agree with Mary, whatever you say try to be calm enough to throw the burden of unfeeling stupidity back on her. ((((((tanya and her boys))))))) (NT) -- 'b, 06:25:03 01/27/10 Wed
• (((((((((((((Tanya and family))))))))))))))) You continue to be in my prayers. (NT) -- Whiskey Eyes, 06:40:34 01/27/10 Wed
• I'm so sorry it played out like this Tanya, worse than you expected. Continued prayers (((Tanya & Family))) (NT) -- Mahri, 07:14:42 01/27/10 Wed
• Will be praying for you today, Tanya. It must feel as though everything's imploding. People can be incredibly thoughtless and cruel. I'm so sorry. (NT) -- E, 07:19:47 01/27/10 Wed
• ((((Tanya and extended family)))) I agree with what 'becca said above about your SIL's motivations, but that doesn't excuse the way she did it. As to the rest, take a moment to look at today's affirmation that I sent out to SOS a few minutes ago, I'll up it inside too. Stay strong. Stay focused. We love you!! >>>>>>>>> -- PeggyB, 07:57:06 01/27/10 Wed
• I'm glad you & the kids are going for Grandma. Remembering her and good times you shared should be the focus of today. As for the rest...I think I'd skip any post-service gathering if it's gonna turn into a family arguement (jmho). (NT) -- CindyS, 10:33:47 01/27/10 Wed
• You need some big hugs! (((Tanya))) (NT) -- Denise, 21:16:18 01/27/10 Wed
• (((((((((Tanya)))))))))) (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 05:48:05 01/28/10 Thu
• ((((Tanya & Boys)))) (NT) -- Lil, 21:07:55 01/28/10 Thu
• (((((((((((((Tanya))))))))))))) (NT) -- FranS, 16:10:27 01/29/10 Fri
• ((((((Tanya)))))) You and your boys are in my prayers. (NT) -- Rebecca, 05:51:24 01/30/10 Sat

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• That's a lovely idea, Peggy. (NT) -- E, 12:45:11 01/25/10 Mon
• (NT) -- FranS (), 17:15:04 01/25/10 Mon

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• I'm so glad that all went well, Elaine. Now you can jump around in Ireland and not worry about hurting yourself, Get well soon! (NT) -- FranS, 12:04:30 01/20/10 Wed
• I'm very happy to hear that! (NT) -- Denise, 12:27:25 01/20/10 Wed
• I'm so glad it went well, and now I just hope she can take it easy enough to heal up well. (NT) -- celtgirl, 15:47:27 01/20/10 Wed
• Thanks so much, everyone. A lot of physical therapy in my future, but it's all good. Took a little potty break, then stopped to visit the BDB and check out the Kitchen, which is a very warm and inviting place, btw. Now must head back to the recliner and hook up the leg to the little ice machine they sent home with me. Be well everyone. And please be extra careful with your tendons; sadly, they lose their elasticity as we get older. (I've been living proof, time and time again!) (NT) -- E, 21:07:31 01/20/10 Wed
  • Glad all is well, Elaine. I hope the recovery goes well and you are up and around very soon. (((Elaine))) (NT) -- Lil, 21:39:42 01/20/10 Wed
• ((((healing vibes))) for our Elaine. It was hard to watch her struggle at times in Ireland so I hope this does the tick and gets her moving pain free again. (NT) -- CindyS, 14:11:15 01/21/10 Thu
• Elaine, I didn't know that you were having surgery and what was being done, but I'm glad it's done and you are fine! Healing vibes and speedy recovery dear friend! (NT) -- IsabelleKiltup, 16:40:31 01/21/10 Thu
  • Thank you all so much. Lots of pain today as the nerve block has worn off (can wiggle my toes!). Very loopy from the strong pain meds, but glad to be on the road to recovery. (NT) -- E, 05:53:46 01/22/10 Fri
    • I missed this too but glad to hear you're starting to get better. Gentle hugs ((( Elaine ))) (NT) -- MaryC in KY, 10:37:22 01/22/10 Fri
      • Thanks so much - doing much better tonight. Love this little ice machine thingy. No longer using Grandma's walker, feeling rather smug about it, too! (NT) -- E, 21:22:40 01/22/10 Fri
• Love to you, Elaine! Don't go running after cats and children too soon. (NT) -- 'b, 06:44:22 01/25/10 Mon