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Raising Christian Girls - Discipline and Spanking
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Raising Christian Girls - Discipline and Spanking

Subject: Spanking as therapy


Author:
JoHarp
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Date Posted: 22:03:48 03/01/11 Tue

I wish to emphasis the point that spanking may well be innerly desired by the
girl, being beneficial in:
1. Purging of guilt emotions, wrongdoings and wrongthoughts, regrets and wishing to make amends.
2. Thoughts of self anger thus self punishment due to some silly mistakes, errors of judgement, forgetting.
3. Purging self of unhealthy or impure emotions, thoughts, impulsions.
In this case the girl may suggest the need to her parents who would then arrange a meeting with a person competent. Such a spanking may be a ritual affair, and quite severe using a cane and some humiliation for fullest effect without causing problems of any sort.

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Subject: More Strange Birds


Author:
Many Moons
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Date Posted: 22:03:36 03/01/11 Tue

Having caught a promo the other day, I became curious. Pop psychologist and control freak Phillip Calvin McGraw, aka "Dr. Phil." is looking for a new Dr. Phil Family for his syndicated program. Curious what happened to the old one, I did a little research.

Just for the record, the Dr. Phil Show is an indirect creation of reputed lesbian and wannabe radical social engineer Oprah Winfrey. Harpo Productions is credited with producing the Dr. Phil Show. "Harpo" is the reverse pronunciation of "Oprah".

To be classified as a Dr. Phil Family, both the horizontal and the vertical dynamics of the family have to be in total disarray. That means that the siblings hate each other and neither of them listens to their parents except to get what they want. Not only that, but the parents must have significant difficulties in their relationship.

The above is true of the Dr. Phil Family presented during the 2009-2010 television season. Apparently, they first appeared on the Dr. Phil Show when the oldest daughter, now in her early 20s, became pregnant at 15. Since then, this little darling has gone on to have two more children. None of the kids has the same father! At least two of the fathers have criminal records.

The oldest apparently wrecked her mother's Mercedes-Benz without significant consequences ensuing. On top of all that, her parents are raising her children because the courts won't let her have them.

Like her sister, the younger daughter reportedly has a chronic drug problem. She also has a criminal record. Yet, her stated goal in life is to become a schoolteacher!

Apparently, neither of the girls has been seriously spanked on her bare behind in recent memory, if not recorded history! This is not surprising since Dr. Phil claims: "Spanking is associated with a poorer relationship between the parent and child." As with many opponents of spanking, he says that it teaches children to hit and has no long-term benefits.

Yet, Dr. Phil has also said both girls in the Dr. Phil Family behave like spoiled divas. It seems that, at one point or the other, they verbally abused some members of his staff.

Most likely, the girls will age out of their current childish and irresponsible behavior. It is also likely that they will become as difficult as their carping and faultfinding mother is reported to be.

While spanking is not always a perfect solution, obviously neither is money and expert counseling when coupled with totally abstaining from the "applied psychology" of padding spoiled brats on their bare behinds!

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Subject: I still get spanked , im 14


Author:
Hannah
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Date Posted: 22:03:36 03/01/11 Tue

Ok i am 14 and i still get spanked ! my younger brothers dont and they see me get spanked ! humiliating. i get spanked bare bottom with a paddle or hairbrush and i have to go over my parents lap too. and if were in public my mom will still do it . Like honestly she just dooesnt see that im old and im grown up im 14 for crying out loud. she'll spank me on my undies in public and then i get paddled at home to just make it worse. When i got suspended i even got strapped !!!!! How would you spank a daughter thats basically an adult .

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Subject: New with question about naked spanking


Author:
Brother Bob
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Date Posted: 22:03:33 03/01/11 Tue

I am a christian man and stepfather to 1 girl and 1 boy. My daughter is 12 my son nearly 10.

I would like to know how other christian fathers feel about nudity when giving a spanking. Full nudity isn't something I require but I have heard of some fathers spanking when he daughter is naked. Is this ever acceptable?

BB

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Subject: Father mad over spanking...help?


Author:
Mary Sue
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Date Posted: 10:28:54 03/01/11 Tue

My parents have spanked both me and my sister since we were little. They have always spanked us bare-bottomed with their hand. Now, I really have no problem with it, both me and my sister both accept the punishment, as we know we deserve it for doing wrong.

Now, my sister is two years younger than me (she's 14) and she recently went over to a friend's house. We met them at a homeschooling group a few years back and our families quickly became close. Apparently, she and her friend had snuck out and were caught by the parents of said family. The father took it upon himself to punish both girls, both his daughter and my sister, by a bare-bottomed spanking which is customary in their house just as it is in ours.

My father however, is angry and we are not allowed to associate with that family anymore now. I don't understand, he was just disciplining her, he didn't do it out of any perverse reasons. Is my father right to be so angry and separate us from our very close friends over this incident?

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Subject: Thought of spanking an older child bothers me


Author:
Thomas
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Date Posted: 10:28:35 03/01/11 Tue

My daughter is 14 and hasn't been spanked since she was in first grade. We've thought about spanking her because very little else works, especially now that she's a teen. Still, I have to think that she is too old to be spanked now. My wife has threatened her with spanking but our daughter only rolls her eyes and shrugs it off. She's not afraid at being spanked because she doesn't think we'll do it. In fact, we probably won't!!!

Why are we do afraid of spanking our teens? I know many parents that feel the way we do yet I was spanked until I was 15 and my wife was spanked until she was 16. We thought we were too old but our parents showed us that we were not. It's different now. I don't know why.

I don't expect a miracle answer. I'm just complaining. :)

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