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Raising Christian Girls - Discipline and Spanking
Subject: Girls Drinking More


Author:
Many Moons
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Date Posted: 22:32:50 07/02/10 Fri
A study conduced by the Partnership for a Drug-Free America concluded that teenage girls are more likely to see advantages in using drugs and alcohol. In the 2009 study, 2/3 of girls said self-medicating with drugs and alcohol helped them cope with problems at home.

Girls, in particular, seem more drawn to alcohol because it relieves the stress. Of course, as most experience parents are aware, alcohol also lowers a girl's inhibitions!

During the same year, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found that 1/5 of high school students were abusing prescription drugs. Most of these kids were white. Many are influenced by advertisements they see on TV.

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Subject: Impliments


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Dave 50
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Date Posted: 17:15:59 06/24/10 Thu
Can I ask other parents why they choose to use impliments to spank.
We find our hand is just as effective. It does not leave dangerous bruising or any lasting marks.
Furthermore an otk hand spanking is a safe way to chastise children as well as showing them you love them by holding them tight with one arm whilst the other arm/hand spanks them.
Our daughters know they are loved.
I'm not critising just asking why others use paddles, belts etc

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Subject: Admiring men who spank


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Jonathon
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Date Posted: 08:48:34 06/17/10 Thu
I was talking online with a friend last night who mentioned how lucky he is that his new wife of 6 months was spanked growing up. In fact his wife was spanked well into her teens by a caring but strict father. He said how much he appreciated how his father in law raised his wife when she was a girl. There were plenty of spankings, some bare bottom, during his wifes junior high and high school years.

I thought it was interesting to hear how this man puts his father in law on such a high pedestal. He thinks the spankings were a big part of the fact that his wife has always been ladylike and sweet.

J

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Subject: Do you ever punish your children in public?


Author:
Randy
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Date Posted: 15:32:36 06/14/10 Mon
When you are out of home, in town, wherever - do you punish your children in public or do you "promise" them that they will get it later, such as back at home, or in the hotel? Does such a promise already help to stop bad behavior?

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Subject: When is a girl too old for a spanking?


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Christine
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Date Posted: 08:59:52 05/26/10 Wed
When I was 8, I thought was too old for a spanking. When I was 12, I thought I was too old for a spanking. When I was 18, I found out I was not to old for a bare bottom spanking.

My parents thought that if I got into trouble at school, I was not too old for a spanking.

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Subject: Re: I'm at my wits end


Author:
sap
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Date Posted: 20:29:04 05/14/10 Fri
Well, Sandie,

You are not an adult, and I think your parents ought to have the right to discuss, and put limits on, your behavior with you. However, I agree that traditional punishment, particularly spanking, isn't going to be helpful -- and, in fact, may lead to serious harm -- at this point. You are not a full fledged adult, but you are nearly one, and you should have full control over your own body, no doubt.

I'm glad your bf would stand up for you. I read stories where a girl in her teens gets spanked in front of her bf and the guy just stands there. No good bf would let his girl get spanked reluctantly or non-consensually by anyone.

Hopefully, you will listen to most of what your parents have to say. Not because they might punish you if you don't... but simply because you know they love you and they are your parents and looking out for you.

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Subject: Re: I'm at my wits end


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Many Moons
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Date Posted: 16:48:59 05/14/10 Fri
Absent extenuating circumstances, 16 is not normally an age for legal emancipation.

Moreover, despite all the bluff and bluster, girls are not disposed to fight a well-deserved paddling. It is one of those facts of life that bedevils spanking opponents.

On the other hand, any boyfriend attempting to interfere with legitimate discipline of a daughter may get in over his head rather quickly. Parents aren't always pushovers. On top of that, whereas paddling an unruly teen is acceptable by most community standards, assaulting a parent is generally frowned up. Doing so puts a young man on the fact track to incarceration.

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Subject: A very delicate situation


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Jessica
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Date Posted: 16:39:03 04/13/10 Tue
Hi, I have come to this forum in need of some vary serious advice, and even if I can't solve my problem here, I feel as though I need to tell my story. My parents are both devout buddhists, but I converted to Christianity after I became involved with a youth group near my school. They were such nice people and they showed me the love and community of Christ. However, my parents were absolutely furious with me, and our relationship has been tainted ever since. Now I am becoming very stressed, and I am doing poorly in school and becoming involved in fights with my classmates. After talking with people in my youth group, I decided that it might be a good idea to ask my parents to spank me for punishment when I got in trouble. I asked them about it and they flatly refused, reminding me that any kind of violence whatsoever was strictly against their faith. But I feel that I really need to be spanked. I was wondering if it would be appropriate to have someone else spank me, like a classmate, or someone from the church I attend. If so, what kind of punishment system/spanking technique would you recommend?

Thank you very much for everyone who took the time to read this <3

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Subject: Christian School Rules


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Jonathon
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Date Posted: 20:08:17 01/24/10 Sun
The subject of spanking a Christian girl in school has been talked about here and hopefully will be talked about more. This question is about other forms of discipline in school.

Many of us have read about stories of strip searches being done in schools. Obviously most people are against it. Should Christian schools ever conduct strip searches of any kind? What about searching lockers and backpacks?

Would any of those be acceptable if a Christian girl is suspected of having drugs on her?

Jonathon

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Subject: Verbal Spanking Warnings


Author:
Jorge
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Date Posted: 17:32:37 11/20/09 Fri
Is it good or bad to rely too much on on verbal spanking warnings? Last night both my daughters were in their bedroom in their PJs. I was down the basement trying to repair something. For about 20 minutes I could hear the two loudly arguing about something. Several times their grandmother told them to keep it down, but they did not listen. If anything, they became a bit louder.

Finally I came upstairs and all I had to do was to stick my head into their bedroom and calmly say: "If I hear one more peep out of either of you, you're both going to get spanked". From that moment on, until lights-out, there was no more arguing!

Jorge

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Subject: A question


Author:
Jorge
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Date Posted: 10:35:46 11/05/09 Thu
Hello all:

I am very happy to have found this forum. I am a widower of 3 years with 2 beautiful daughters (ages 11 and 14). My late wife's mother also lives with us. I am Brazilian, but have lived in the New York area for over 20 years. We are Catholics and I have always been a firm believer in spanking.

Up until about a year ago neither of my girls needed to be spanked very often. However, that situation has changed quite a bit in this past year for my older daughter. When I'm at work, I'm told that she can really be extremely disrespectful to her grandmother, her aunt and even her younger sister! The words that I'm told come out of her mouth make me very ashamed of her. However, please understand that she NEVER acts like this whenever I am around. She knows better!!!

I'm afraid that in recent months the scene in our house at her bedtime has often been of my daughter across my lap with her PJs down, and I administering a sound spanking!

My question is this: Is this just a phase that my daughter is going through, or will this behavior keep up through the rest of her teen years?

Best regards,
Jorge

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Subject: The rod


Author:
Dave
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Date Posted: 17:42:40 05/24/09 Sun
My question is should Parents use an impliment to spank such as a belt or paddle?
In my opinion that is going beyond resonable chastisement.
I believe a Parent should only use the hand on the bottom. I find it effective and I think using an impliment as going too far. But I would welcome views on this

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