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Date Posted: 10:16:08 03/07/02 Thu
Author: Ho Yee
Subject: Depressed !!!

Is honesty wrong??
What's friends for??
In my opinion,
if I treat somebody as my best friends,I would like to be honest to them,no matter it's good things or bad things.
If I find somethings wrong on them,I would like to say it out to them,I dont want to hide things because I want to be honest to my friends.
But after I came to USA,I found that my belief is always wrong,
even though you treat somebody as best friend,you shouldnt be honest to him/her because you want to be honest,it doesnt mean he/she want you to be honest.
If you are too honest,he/she always cant accept it.
Every person want to hear compliment,the things they want to hear.
They dont want to admit their bad things,they want to lie to themselves and others.
They dont want themselves and others to discover that.
Is it true that in order to alive in this real world,we have to be liers??

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