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Date Posted: 19:27:24 05/04/07 Fri
In reply to:
Linda
's message, "Re: smoking and personality..." on 00:08:35 05/04/07 Fri
Hey Linda -
This was a really nice and informative post not only for Milo, but for me and I am sure others here. It is nice for us guys to get the woman's perspective on what can be a bit of an awkward situation like Milo's, especially from you since you understand and are accepting of desire many of us feel. It is a relief to hear from you that it is OK to feel this way. For me it is something that I am only recently realizing, and kind of felt a little embarrassed about it. I do not know if what triggered it was when I decided to start, or if perhaps it was always there and I was just able to ignore it somehow. In any event, I feel more comfortable with myself being attracted to pretty female smokers. It is not the first quality I look for, and perhaps I do not completely understand it, but I guess it is me. Thanks for sharing this with us!
Bill
>Personally, Milo, I don't think that you will score
>any points with Sara by telling her that she looks
>"cute" smoking. I think that many girls who smoke in
>public like to think they look very hot and very
>desirable, not "cute".
>
>If you're not comfortable telling her that you were
>turned on watching her smoke, then tell her what you
>told me - "Sara, when I saw you smoke, you really
>captured my attention". If she smiles and says
>"Thanks", that means she wants to hear more from you,
>and you could say "I really think that you look so
>mature and confident when you smoke". If she reacts
>well to that, then take it from there. And if you
>don't expect to run into her within the next month, I
>think you should call her, whether or not she already
>has a boyfriend. Who knows, maybe she has another
>smoking friend she can introduce you to.
>
>As far as why you like a smoking girl more than one
>who doesn't smoke, I feel the same way when I watch
>attractive guys and girls smoke - it's very erotic. I
>can't really explain why, and one of the things I like
>to learn on this board is what turns other people on
>about smoking. Some people like to see a lot of
>exhaled smoke, others like to watch deep inhales, etc.
>
>
>Anyway, good luck and keep us posted.
>
>Linda
>
>>Linda, well, I'm not sure if I already really like
>>Sara. For sure she captured my attention a lot. She
>>lives close to the place I am staying but I think she
>>has already a boyfriend. Anyway next time we meet I
>>could make a remark about her looking cute smoking
>>just to see how she'll react. At least this gave me
>>something to think about, why do I like a smoking girl
>>more than one who doesn't smoke? Any comments or
>>similar experiences?! I'll keep you updated... (Milo)
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