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Subject: Re: 16 and luvin it!! - Why do guys find smoking sexy?

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Linda

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Date Posted: 18:02:46 09/12/07 Wed
In reply to: Ellen Fan 's message, "Re: 16 and luvin it!! - Why do guys find smoking sexy?" on 21:01:27 09/11/07 Tue

Hi Ellen Fan -

I understand your point. I've thought about this a little bit, and here's what I've come up with:

If you're in a healthy relationship with someone, and you both enjoy smoking during sex occasionally to enhance your experience or spice up your sex life, and you enjoy reading about techniques for smoking during sex (like I do), then that seems OK.

On the other hand, if you get off on writing or reading posts like the one Jeff wrote, and you may not have been in a relationship for a while, then maybe that's not a healthy thing psychologically. However, I wouldn't think that having a smoking fetish would be considered sexually perverse, so I may not go as far as calling people like that perverts.

I would like to hear other people's comments on this issue.

All that being said, I have always had a strong interest in the relationship between smoking and sex (as you can read from my very early posts). Even my parents ocassionally smoke during sex, and my mom has been more than happy to share her experiences with me. So, it's OK with me to see more of these posts, as long as it doesn't involve people getting hurt or anything like that.

I do appreciate your comments, Ellen Fan. Thanks.

Linda

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