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Date Posted: 09:02:05 12/01/07 Sat
Author: 寶貝華華
Subject: 好久久久.....不見,來報到囉!

儷人如水水如雲,
漣作衣裳萍作裙。
泓藍似碧施青雨,
撒落紅塵洗濁薰。


《禮記.表記》:君子之交淡如水,小人之交甜如蜜。
《莊子》外篇•卷七上《山木》 :
君子之交淡如水,小人之交甘若醴。

「君子之交淡若水,小人之交甘若醴;
君子淡以親,小人甘以絕。」

意思是形容君子的交往,以誠相待,雖平淡似水,但能持續久遠;
而小人則以利交往,雖一時親暱,卻容易絕裂翻臉。
君子之交真正的朋友互取於一種持久的信守,依靠赤誠相投;
正確的交友態度------尊重朋友各自擁有獨立自主的空間。
小人之交用甜言蜜語、重金送禮、肉麻吹捧、物質交換、
互相利用、甚至爾虞我詐的這只是一種暫時的安逸。
利益衝突時,友誼說變就變。

--------友情唯有細水長流,淡如水,才能長久!--------

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