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Subject: spanking


Author:
Peter Dunbar (sore arse)
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Date Posted: 05:57:41 06/15/19 Sat

Just reading some of Stan,s stories here where he mentions that with some of them it was difficult to keep sex out. I can well understand that since a good spanking o belting often has the effect of causing arousal in both parties.
This did not happen to me, first time around since my teacher/spanker was more interested in my reaction to the pain he was inflicting ,rather than any sexual effect. So there was no follow up in that direction.
However, as I mentioned, I did meet with him several times and while it never led to sex, I did find that I began to enjoy it and noticed that I was beginning to become aroused more often. Later on I came into contact with a few others who were into spanking/trashing and were not too shy about including a bit of "relief" along the way. That was when I really began to enjoy those sessions. The idea of being restrained and helpless while being leathered was a huge turn on and waiting for the relief was even better. It appears that arousal is often caused by the excitement of the situation and is nothing to be ashamed of .The thing is to make sure you don't wet yourself along the way [has happened ,I believe ] One guy even shot his load while being trashed messy ! and such a waste. Another spanker I came across preferred to use a crop which he said could reach into every crevice [and it did ] but in order to protect the spankee,s balls, he always fitted a strong leather bag to the parts in question in case of a stroke going astray.
So yes, sex does become part and parcel of spanking and there,s no harm in that.

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Stan
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Date Posted: 14:32:27 06/20/19 Thu

Peter,

If you haven't done so already, I might suggest you read my post titled "Alternative Views of Corporal Punishment". I can't help suspecting that there is an undercurrent of sexual domination and submission in most corporal punishment scenes, whether it is explicitly expressed or not. But I don't think the last word has been said on the subject.


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