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Subject: Wife likes to watch


Author:
Al (Painful but exciting)
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Date Posted: 20:16:58 12/07/12 Fri

I've been into spanking forever, but in the ladt year a whole new dimension has been opened to me. My wife and I had experimented with spanking since we were together, mostly with me doing the spanking. Anytime she attempted to spank me I just felt silly; I'm so much bigger and stronger, it just didn't seem real.

Then about a year ago I did something that was truly deserving of a sound, punishment spanking. It was at this time that I not only learned of my wife's secret fantasy but also experienced it - she made the arrangements and then sat back and watched as I was spanked by another man. I tried to talk her out of it but she threatened to leave me ( what I did was pretty bad) if I didn't go through with it.

This was terribly embarrassing and also very painful, and sadly for me, has become a regular part of my life. My wife loves these events and the sex afterwards is great, but I still find being spanked and handled by another man while she looks on quite humiliating.

Has anyone else ever experienced this? I could really use someone to talk to about this, I'm so very confused.

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[> Subject: Re: Wife likes to watch


Author:
Ms. Gertrude
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Date Posted: 14:56:11 01/12/14 Sun

When you are under your wife as a female authority it is your job to follow her orders, not question. I think it's fine if she wishes a male to beat you. I would encourage her to invite some of her female friends over to watch you get put in your place.

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[> [> Subject: wife paddles no one watches


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Victor
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Date Posted: 10:31:19 03/19/14 Wed


In a great marriage--of 38 yrs--I get a bare assed paddling once in a great wile for really bad conduct with my male friends--of which my more religious and moral wife is highly offended---When it happens I got it coming no complaints--I just take what I have earned it hurts and when its over things are once again great between us--there is little conversation nor ever any disagreement when its got to happen---I would not ever have anyone watch! Holy cow--I would be embarrassed--As is there is no sense of embarrassment bet ween my wife and I---But no one else could watch a big guy like me get his bare butt paddled Other guys like me on that???

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[> Subject: Re: Wife likes to watch


Author:
Verna to Victor
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Date Posted: 13:34:11 03/19/14 Wed

Well of course when you need a spanking your wife is in charge of you. She will tell you the rules and you will obey. Of course you won't like having your briefs taken down in front of a group of women. That is exactly why it is effective. If you don't like it, you better learn to behave yourself. If not, the women will have quite the show.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Wife likes to watch


Author:
Victor (answer to Lance)
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Date Posted: 18:07:44 10/23/14 Thu

I have not been back to this site since last April! But i will answer your question---No when my wife paddles me i am naked cause just out of the shower---and it hurts plenty but there is no embarrasment factor since it is my wife. I am a shy guy in many ways so i would be totally embarrassed if anyone else knew or saw----but its just between us so though my butt sure hurts---its not a big deal in any other way and it works fine for us---when something has to be settled

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[> Subject: Re: Wife likes to watch


Author:
lance (question for Victor)
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Date Posted: 14:04:43 04/02/14 Wed

I am curious about your comment that its not embarrassing to get your naked butt paddled by your wife---An adult man geetinjg his bare butt spanked is not a matter of embarrassment???? I think not

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[> Subject: Re: Wife likes to watch


Author:
Jack
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Date Posted: 13:08:19 07/18/14 Fri

I've experienced this same thing, but from the opposite side.

There's a guy I've known since he was about 12. On his 13th birthday, I gave him a spanking. His parents never spanked him, but he was really embarrassed when he got up, because it was obvious he popped wood.

He disappeared for a couple of weeks, but then came back. He tried to act like nothing had happened, but about six weeks after his birthday, he asked if I could spank him again.

I love spanking a cute boy, so I agreed. This one was a little less playful. Same reaction, except we didn't have to deal with his embarrassment.

I talked to him later, and he admitted to going straight home for a stroke session after I spanked him.

That went on - not often, but occasionally - until he was about 16, when he started dating, and then rarely after that. Most of the spankings were on pants and fairly playful, but he took some real punishment ones as well. After he's started dating, he'd occasionally show up looking for one of those.

During all that, I know he was stroking after pretty much every spanking (so was I), but nothing else ever happened.

About 8 years ago, he got married. He admitted she was into a lot of the same things, and she liked dominating and spanking him. The problem was, like in the first post, she was smaller than him, and could only push him so far (without making it more abuse than spanking).

He and I remained friends, even after I stopped spanking him. At some point, he'd told his wife about me. When she realized she couldn't give him appropriate spankings, she called me. We set things up, and she brought him over to visit.

Over the past 6 1/2 years or so, they've come over for help - sometimes just a few times a year, once several times in one month. When she tells him it's time to visit me, he knows he's in for a long, painful, humiliating session that will push him past all his limits.

We all love it.

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