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Subject: Re: Calling all Toppy-types...


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Keri to Marek
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Date Posted: 15:14:39 02/04/14 Tue
In reply to: Marek 's message, "Re: Calling all Toppy-types..." on 11:04:43 02/04/14 Tue

Isn't it odd that so many of us want what you described but very few of us have found that person? That perfect mate who is exactly like us in the spanking realm? How come I didn't meet the perfect spanker, like you, who is a dream?

I will have been married for 18 years at the end of this month. It is an extremely intimate and trusting relationship so it seems like I could just have him read your words and perform the way you described, right? Of course not. That is a fantasy and reality is reality, for better of for worse.

I love that my hubby goes to that place with me since it's not something he would have sought out had he married someone else. But he knows what it does to me and therefore he becomes a spanker to please his wife. What a guy!

And even with all this I still dream about someone like you. I'm not sure if that is a good thing or a bad one. Since it won't, most likely, ever be like that I wonder if I'm just setting myself up to be disappointed by reading posts like yours. Should I just stop coming to forums like this? Or just be ok with learning from others even though my spanking relationship won't ever be the utopia you described in your first post??

I honestly don't know and no one really has any advice except keep being honest with him, work with him, and just relax and go with the flow... I have a hard time with that but I try.

Good to chat with you!

Your redheaded friend,
Keri

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Re: Calling all Toppy-types...Mandy19:11:16 02/04/14 Tue
Re: Calling all Toppy-types...Marek01:03:18 02/05/14 Wed


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