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Maryem
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Date Posted: 16:41:50 10/12/16 Wed
In reply to:
Wondering-supportive
's message, "Re: A very delicate subject" on 09:12:04 10/12/16 Wed
>As a single mother it is understandable that you have
>to be a disciplinarian at times and you appear to
>recognize that and so have children that respect your
>authority.So you do have leverage in this situation.
>
>Your son obviously has a fetish for used panties. You
>may not approve of it but it is unlikely that you or
>counseling will change what he likes. Such behavioral
>changes arising from the intervention of others is
>simply not successful.
Yes you are right. It's not that he has a thing for panties. If they were a girlfriend it wouldn't other me as much. The fact that they are mine, that's a different story. It feels like incest, rape violating my privacy. I can't take thoes feelings
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>The key issue as as I see it is that both you and your
>daughter (and she too will be in his sights if not
>already since she too wears panties)have the right to
>privacy and you are already very unhappy because your
>privacy has been violated.
>
>While you can't change your son's desire, you can
>control his behavior. That will require that you
>confront him, tell him what you know, and tell him he
>is not to touch the under garments of either you or
>your daughter.
>
>He will likely be highly embarrassed but the talk
>itself may be enough to deter him in future. Let him
>know however since you do spank that if he is caught
>again that he will get the kind of strapping you have
>described and it will be over a period of time and on
>a number of occasions until you are fully satisfied he
>has learned his lesson. So your mom is right about
>what you need to do if he does not heed your warning
>and is damn lucky to get one if you take that
>approach. Then follow up by checking the laundry and
>have your daughter also report anything amiss. Perhaps
>even warn him in front of her so he knows that she too
>knows and will be on the look out.
>
>Its your home and you have the right to be happy in it
>and your son is not entitled to disturb your peace of
>mind the way he is doing at present.
>confront
>
>> I'm a single mother. I have a 16 year old
>>daughter, a 14 year old son , and a 10 year old
>>daughter. They have all been spanked growing up. I'm
>>fair , but firm with there discipline. Due to my
>>divorce, I have to work , so I'm out of the house
>>alot. The discipline has worked well. There are no
>>problems most of the time. The strap I use has not
>>come out of the closet since before the summer.
>> The problem is a current situation. My question
>>is shall I spank, or is professional counselling
>>needed.
>> My son Michael has been , well going into my
>>lingerie draw , and in the dirty laundry . How do I
>>know ? I put my delicate things in a separate laundry
>>bag for I general wash. When I go to do the laundry on
>>my day off, things that I have put in mostly panties,
>>are missing. Then the next time I do the wash they are
>>back in the laundry bag. I keep my clothes neat in the
>>draws, but sometimes I come home from work, and did my
>>panties and bras in disarray. But the most
>>incrimadating was when I made Michael's bed on
>>Saturday morning, I found the panties I wore on a date
>>the night before under his mattress. I have not
>>approached him about it, not yet anyway. I have talked
>>to my boyfriend about it he said I'm upset over
>>nothing, he's becoming aware of women and is
>>interested in the differences. My ex husband just
>>laughed and said he will find a girlfriend and leave
>>you alone soon. My mother said she would beat his
>>behind till he was afaraid to go near your things. A
>>girlfriend of mine suggested that I take him to see a
>>counsoler.
>> I feel victimized , I feel my privacy has been
>>violated. But the thing that is really bothering me ,
>>is , is he doing the samething to my daughter's
>>lingerie.
>> The question is ,should I approach him and punish
>>him with a spanking, or take a different approach ?
>>Just not sure how to deal with it
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