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Date Posted: 10:51:21 03/08/17 Wed
In reply to:
MelissaWest
's message, "To Dianna" on 06:24:30 03/08/17 Wed
Hi, I hope you do mind an intrusion by someone your question was not directed to. I have followed spanking forums over time and contributed to the discussions. Your transition has been dealt with by other moms in the same situation. There is of course no one answer and its not clear what you have done so far to prepare for any change. Clearly you need to first speak with your husband and get his thoughts. You need to raise the topic if he has not already to help ensure you are both on the same page. The discussion has to happen.
It appears you spank and so believe it to be a good means of correction. You naturally want your husband to follow through with your approach. If the spankings are bare bottom or nude than you need to explain why you think your method is desirable and effective.
Perhaps a good way of approaching the topic is spanking as you normally do next time its needed but making sure its in front of your husband. After the matter is resolved than have the talk with your son and explain the new regime and how he can avoid being spanked by behaving. You do need to prepare your son but he does not get to dictate how he will be punished. It should be easier for everyone if your husband simply carries through with your current method of the new method you began using with the boy and establish as his new norm. Good luck!
> Hello, I was reading a bit on here and discovered
>that your situation with your husband and child is
>quite similar to mine. as I am engaged to my finace
>who is also a divorcee, I we are about to make the
>transition to having him move in full time with me and
>my 8 year old son.
>
>I was wondering if you could shed some light on the
>situation. How do you go about discussing your sons
>discipline with him? Did he volunteer to take over the
>boys spankings or did you request that he do so?
>
>Did you ask your son how he felt about having this new
>man in his life be the one to spank his bottom? what
>was his reaction?
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>
>I ask because Im not sure how to proceed or breach
>this topic with my fiance. please advise, thank you so
>much.
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