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Subject: How emancipated and how old fashioned are you?

Author:
Uwe

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Date Posted: 07:05:52 02/21/18 Wed

We all are a product of our genes and of our socialisation and sometimes it is hard to say, what is right or wrong. As far as I see the great majority of young moms here is pretty tough, self-confident and emancipated, has had a good education and probably has a job. First of all: I think that is absolutely ok and I do not have the slightest problem with that, just the opposite. But as you know, the ideology how to raise girls was much different when I was a child (1950's and 1960's). There were not few parents who thought that education in school and university is not so important or even gratuitous for girls, because they should get married and be a good wife to their husband. The only thing they should learn was to keep the household, to be obedient to husband and please him sexually and to raise the children. Some parents thought that the best way to prepare girls for a future like that was to spank them as much and as hard as possible. In general children were spanked much more severe than it is imaginable nowadays, severe canings already for preteen children were common in particular in families who were far away from being intellectual. In families where parents had the ideology that girls/women should be raised to become submissive to men it was sometimes even extreme for the girls. When I was in first class I remember a girl who often was not able to sit on her bench during the lessons and had to stand all the time, because her dad had caned her the evening before. I guess most of you will think that those girls were deplorable and unhappy, facing a fatal life. But that is not the whole truth. When I talk to women around my age who were raised in that way, it is by no means sure that they complain about their life and their childhood. Those who do complain about it normally did not feel enough love of their parents. But there are surprisingly many women who say that dad and mom hurt them so much but also deeply loved them and that they would not swap their childhood and their life against another without severe spanking. You may believe it or not but they are thankful for their "special" education and regret that it was no longer possible to go so far when they had children themselves. They say that their upbringing had worked and that they enjoyed their life as a wife who is inferiour to men. My question: What's about you? Do you think that raising girls by using extreme pain as an important parenting tool could be an acceptable option if it were legal nowadays? Or do you think that this is completely behind the times now and that girls should be raised in the same way like boys? How far would you go if you were legally allowed to spank your daughter as severe and often as you want? I admit that I always have been fascinated by extremely severe spanking of little girls, because I witnessed that as a little boy and it became an erotic fetish for me. But I am self-critical enough to accept that this is not a criterion for real parenting. I naturally know that the role of females has changed and I appreciate that. But are there exceptions? Is some of you still very old-fashioned?

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