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Date Posted: 21:23:44 02/04/13 Mon
Author: TKG1700
Subject: Re: My Run Away Vietnam Bride
In reply to: jay 's message, "Re: My Run Away Vietnam Bride" on 21:35:04 02/01/13 Fri

Hi,
no need to feel sorry as I already got over it long time ago! In fact I am more than happy that she did not want to come back. But what annoyed me was she come to singapore to sign the marriage cert and that will be a great impact! You got to get divorce lawyer and you know the stupid law and woman charter..shouldn't there be a period of staying together for marriage to be valid..
If she will to stay here, I would have to go apply LTVP numerous time, not to mention the language barrier, and she cannot work because not a PR, and also you got to contribute monthly few hundreds to their family (is their culture and mindset - foreigners are rich), and if get a new house, with her name is considered a matrimonal home and you got to split half of it to her if you want divorce, be it she ran away..the law said she's entitled even she did not contribute any money..all she have to do is cow peh cow boo to woman charter..even sweep floor wash cup or suggest you paint the wall pink color is contribution..Even more money $$$$ to the drain..and the time wastage..forget about together happy ever after..
I heard of some marriage and is local that the bride/brigroom regreted after 3months...also must get lawyer?? I would not even considered mine a marriage as there is no wedding ceremony and I self declare I am single again..
Well for vietnam girl there thinking is quite different..if you say let her choose you give them $1500 now or everymonth $300 and if 1year=$3600, she will take the $1500 and that's true!
Getting a vietnam wife is certainly not a good idea! Nowadays if people suggest me get a vietnam wife (most don't know i have one bad encounter), I will not hestitate to give them a good lecture of the numerous cons. And by suggesting it means the person does not regard marriage as true love and I will say do you want to place $500,000 deposit she don't run away..This is not true friend and give a quick easy way out solution thinking you are desperage..The penalty for such easy way out marriage is high..see other story of the cook, the silly security guard and the bussinessman who thought it was true love...and the man who married for few years and the vietnam wife run away with the son.
I do not put this website to gain sympathy but rather hope people can read and ponder about the consequenses of getting a vietnam bride! It does more harm to your pocket and I would say more economical to go geylang. And being able to stop another tragic story from happening, I am doing a good deeds and my luck improved!
Thanks friend, you too can spread the words the cons of getting vietnam bride to your friends/relatives and by doing so, is karma and improve your luck!

2013 - is coming to be the fourth year this july, time waits for no body..do you have a cousin 40+ not married, single? Don't suggest vietnam bride, for goodness sake! It does you good and to him. Stay tune as another story of a guy who has a cousin married a vietnam wife and she just run back, and is hoping to get another one, is a pity not published in paper to help people out there..



>Sorry to hear your true story, I was thinking of
>getting a China or Vietnam wife, maybe I shall stop
>it, I was thinking going vn tour to make friend there
>too... So how are you now? Hopefully you get over
>these by now. Jayeho@yahoo.com

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