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Date Posted: 04:20:00 11/15/12 Thu
Author: TKG1700
Subject: Vietnam bride returned to Vietnam with child and refuse to come back

Came across this in a forum though the post may be quite old: A forumer possibly in distress seek some advice -
My brother married a Vietnamese bride about 3 years ago. She bore a child not long after. 2 months ago she said she wanted to return to Vietnam to visit her family and wanted to take her child along. She said she will return after 2 weeks.

Now, 2 months have passed and she refuses to come back to Singapore with her child. We have called her several times and on the occasion that she picks up the phone, she insists on not returning. She even demanded money in return for the child to be returned to Singapore.

We have approached the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and the Singapore Embassy of Singapore in Vietnam for assistance. Both mentioned that this is a domestic affair and should be settled by ourselves. Either that or attempt to secure custody of the child through legal means, which we understand will most likely be a time consuming and expensive matter. While we may consider this option, we are concerned for his safety, well-being, among other issues.

We are at a lost on what avenues are avaialble to us and hope enlightened ones can come forward and offer us some words of advice, thanks in advance.

- Poor thing, wife and son gone back to vietnam and just like any other gold digger, refuse to come back. But when camer to quries, there are certainly far too many, some would just loke to poke the backside even more:
"Sorry but I have misgivings on this story. You did not mention anything about why she left in the first place. Why did she wait for almost 3 years before going back? And for her to bring her own child back to Vietnam and then return the child in exchange for money... it seems like this is not the entire story or it lacks crucial details.

And then you call her as "vietnamese bride" instead of your brother's vietnamese wife.. sounds like you are refering to a purchased property. I have to agree with the authorities that this is a domestic matter. I suggest your brother go to vietnam and have a 2-way conversation with his wife and avoid refering to her as "vietnamese bride". "

Such insensitive reply are what you going to get when your vietnam bride run away! Do you want that to happen?

In another forum, another 30something guy wrote if still cannot find a wife, he intend to get a vietnam wife, thinking it as a clear short cut solution. More like digging his own grave!Funny thing is, people just love doing it. Hope he see my website and clearly throw the 'silly idea' away as far as possible!

Rather stay single then feeding money to wolves!

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