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Subject: A way for the future

Allanah (Joyful)
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Date Posted: 18:30:58 09/29/13 Sun

My partner and I have been following Editas post and the responses that have followed with great interest.
We are finding ourselves following a similar path,my partner being the dominant force in our relationship.And the person encouraging me to adopt more feminine persona.
We are both in our mid thirties age- wise and a similar size,and we both work in healthcare.She is quite open that it was my non-stereotype look that drew her to me.I'm actually quite slight in build and far from tall,dark and handsome.Since we have been together,what started in jest has become more profound and serious. She originally would buy presents of lingerie for me,laughing it off as ' challenging the traditions' .However, in the spirit of things I would occasionally wear them.If I'm honest,the things she bought felt amazing on, and actually looked cute.Natalie encouraged me to abandon my 'male underwear' more and more. So pretty much I wear panties and stockings every day, and yes I have grown to love how they feel,how they look.More men should do this, you will take more pride in your appearance, you will make more of an effort, and you do feel better for it.And perhaps as a side effect, you may well drop some of that 'macho BS'
Two years ago,things became more defined.Natalie became more insistent and persuasive regarding our situation.Given that I had abandoned my male underwear,which naturally included socks, and wore pantyhose most days.She began to drop hints about perhaps taking the next step and wearing a dress/ heels.It seemed reasonable, I mean. If you are wearing pantyhose, its about how your legs appear,and lets face it,lace-up business shoes do not add anything.She teased me about perhaps mirroring each other in how we looked.Given how long I had been wearing lingerie for now, this didn't seem entirely unreasonable and could well be fun.What was a trial has become more regular and frequent.Logically,all the preparation including choosing a wig, it seemed a lot to do for for one event, and both of us really enjoy it( High heels again have such an impact on how I see myself well,that along with a wig!) So what was a supposed experiment ,we have consolidated a number of times,and yes,We both love it.
Nat has been quite frank over the last year suggesting that I accept her view of things and make this more permanent.To this end I have begun to take a supplement which may help give me more curves.Nat is quite insistent this is a prelude to prescribed hormones,and my being 24/7 female. I was never wholly averse to abandoning my masculinity,but I'm not sure I ever imagined I would be where I am now.Nat is definitively leading in this.Is this the way of the future for many of us? Should more and more males accept their declining role and embrace the feminine? We are hoping to chat with others who also are pursuing this path in the hope of joining network of like minded women.So that we can encourage this new way.

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Re: A way for the futureAscendant Female15:21:42 10/11/14 Sat

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