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Dialma (happy)
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Date Posted: 11:38:29 04/11/14 Fri
In reply to:
maggied
's message, "Re: Complete feminization of husbands" on 14:53:52 08/23/13 Fri
>>>Hello!o
>>>I am Edita from Holland. I am looking for other wifes
>>>who have similar experiences as I have...
>>>I will tell my story in short. 10 years ago, I got
>>>married at the age of 23, my husband was 21. We were
>>>expecting a child, and decided it was better to get
>>>married.
>>>I have always been interested in feminine males, my
>>>brother grew up as a sissy (he was the youngest and
>>>only boy among five children in the family). I don't
>>>remember him in pants...
>>>After I got married I very quickly secured the
>>>dominating position in our marriage for me. When my
>>>husband graduated from college, he was not able to
>>>find a job. I was successfully working in a computer
>>>company at that time. So we agreed that he would stay
>>>at home, taking care of the household and our
>>>daughter. Pretty much that was the time I decided to
>>>feminize my husband. I started out with female
>>>underwear, continued via a few "dressing games" until
>>>he accepted to wear female clothing only. I then had
>>>his body hair removed by laser treatment, had a few
>>>corrective cosmetic surgeries, etc. In 2006 I had him
>>>started on hormones. Since 2007 (due to the hormones
>>>he could not "perform" as a male anymore) he lives
>>>completely as a woman.
>>>To make a long story short, over the past 8 years, my
>>>husband has become a real woman, he had breast
>>>augmentation in 2007 and he completed his journey
>into
>>>womanhood by having his Reassignment Surgery in July
>>>2010.
>>>I am very satisfied with my "work". Many people ask
>me
>>>why I had him completely demaled as that stopped any
>>>male/female relationship. I did this because I just
>>>felt better living with MtF TG rather than a
>>>"crossdresser". After he got me pregnant, he had
>>>fulfilled all of his male duties, that's all I wanted
>>>from him as a man.
>>>We are staying married (which is possible here).
>After
>>>some early difficulties, my husband is a happy woman
>>>now and has fully accepted his role in the family and
>>>obediently follows my instructions. Our daughter
>>>understands the situation very well and has no
>>>problems with it.
>>>I only allow very feminine clothes for him to wear,
>>>i.e. skirts must not be longer than three inches
>above
>>>the knee.
>>>I would like to know, if there are more women here,
>>>who have gone as far as we did. I would be
>interesting
>>>to hear about their lives.
>>>
>>>Edita
>>
>>Dear Edita,
>>
>>Yours is certainly a very interesting story. I do not
>>have any direct personal knowledge of similar
>>situations, but I have heard about a couple of them
>>via correspondence. (btw, The other cases were also in
>>Europe.)
>>
>>I do know of a few somewhat related situations---e.g.,
>>of a fully feminised male-to-female spouse who became
>>the stay-at-home wife of the genetically female
>>spouse, and took care of the children also, like a
>>traditional 'wife.'
>>However, these cases did not involve a frankly
>>dominant/submissive relationship. Instead, the male
>>to female 'wife' had always wanted to make the gender
>>transition, and the genetically female spouse was very
>>supportive of that.
>>Besides these two cases, i also know of another case
>>like these, except that the transformation did not
>>include SRS (but was complete in all other respects.)
>>
>>I hope that both you and your transformed spouse are
>>very happy with your new situation and with your
>>relationship.
>>
>>Nancy
>
>
>
>Dear Edith,
>
>Thank you for sharing this wonderful story. It is
>somehow exciting and at the same time reassuring to
>read about people with similar lifesytles. I too am a
>male that lives full time as a female while my wife
>performs the traditional male role in our marraige.
>Perhaps it was easier for me then your husband because
>I was never what you would refer to as a alpha male
>and I have had a history of crossdressing from an
>early age.
>
>My wife and I met in college and married shortly after
>graduation. Over the next three years while she
>excelled in the corporate world I struggled losing job
>after job. While the quality of my work excelled it
>appeared that I had difficulty with corporate politics
>and always seemed to end up on the short end of the
>stick. Time after time I would do the work and a boss
>or co-worker would take the credit and I didn't have
>the gumption to stand up for myself.
>
>I had finally settled for a job far below my ability
>and it was at their holiday party where things came to
>a head. We sat at the same table with my obnoxious
>boss and all through the meal he seemed to make jokes
>at my expense and seemed to want to hit on my wife.
>Finally it was her who stood up and told him in no
>uncertain terms that he was a lout and if I wouldn't
>stand up for myself she would and that he could take
>his lousy underpaid job and shove it. With that she
>said lets go and we left.
>
>I could hardly hold my head up as we left and when we
>got in the car she let me have it. Over the next few
>months it was very cold in the house as I struggled to
>find a job so I mostly just stayed home and did house
>hold chores, cooking and cleaning. It was then that I
>started crossdressing while she was away and I was
>working at home. Then one day it came to a head.
>
>We had a long discussion over the next few weeks and
>to make a long story short she made her point. She
>didn't care how I dressed or if I wanted to stay home
>and be a housewife so long as I held my head up high
>and excepted it. It wasn't a point made out of anger
>but out of love and over the next few months she spent
>a lot of time with me helping me shop and to learn to
>present myself in an appropriate demure manner. She
>has done a remarkable almost miraculous job helping me
>to master the art of makeup and hair and I love her
>all the more for her efforts.
>
>Unlike your husband I have not had sexual reassignment
>surgery but I do sucessfully live as a woman. It is
>not as if there wasn't issues along the way or times
>when I wanted to purge but it was our love and her
>will that helped keep me on the right path. As for
>permanent changes over the years I have had a
>bi-lateral orchi and a bit of facial feminization
>surgery as well as hormones. I have not gone as far
>as breast implants as of yet but with the aid of
>hormones and t-blockers my breasts are a solid 38D. I
>wish you and your husband the best. Thank you for
>allowing me to share.
Dear Edita
I'm happy to see there are women out there that love feminine men, I noticed when I was a kid that I was a girl in the wrong body and always at the first opportunity wear my sister or mom's clothes and since then I havebeen crossdressing, I have been wwearing panties for about 14 years and have a good collection of women's shoes, I would love to find a womanwho loves me and married me and helps me have a full ftm transition (srs and ffs too) like you did. I'm very happy for you and your spouse.
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