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Subject: Feminized male looking for friends & guidance.

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LaRease (I'm over the masculine me)

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Date Posted: 05:13:25 10/26/15 Mon

I'm a twenty something year old black male living in SanFrancisco. I have a slender physique and a slightly muscular build. I have been losing weight to thin myself to become more feminine for the last 2 years. I went from 245lb to 180lb, no HRT yet but I'm not sure if I want to go that route entirely. I own far more femme clothes than male clothing none the less. I've recently become very confident dressed as my femme self, as I've accepted my role as a feminine male and stopped purging, and I love what I see.

My very own personal feminization process has been soothing to say the least and has allowed me to gain confidence in my self in society and the will to find the perfect partner for me that can match my needs to be assertive and directive in her goals. I am X-military and an extreme neat freak & hard worker that has found my energy as a veteran to be some what frivolous and misguided. Whenever my energy is focused I make good things happen and could be a great assistant to say the least. I really just want to find women and more feminine men to hang out with. I wear eye shadow, lipstick & men's panties everyday. I literally don't remember the last time I watched a sporting event or did a push up. All I do with most of my days is find ways to be more acceptable as a feminine male.

My last relationships were typical and never worked out.! Because I literally always found myself in a dress with the stress of their needs that I simply couldn't give them because even though I didn't show it on the outside, I was more femme on the inside. I've purged in disgust & embarrassment but at the end of the day & every day since I was a young boy, I've always known I belong in a dress. I can proudly say this and feel good & I want to teach young boys that it's ok to be feminine and connect with the softness inside you as specially if you know it's there. There is nothing worst than going down a path to some where you don't want to be. I've recently set a date with the "River city gems" in hopes to find more companionship in my life choice & to have clearer goals focused around my femininity. My short term goal is to find a cis woman or trans woman that can help motivate me to be more feminine and comfortable with that feminine spirit inside of me to my next phase in life what ever that may be.

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