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Date Posted: 12:50:08 04/12/14 Sat
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Marty Gahan
's message, "Re: From The December PDQ Website" on 06:53:41 12/02/12 Sun
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>I agree with all this petticoat duscilpline for boys and unruly girls too.
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>Brilliant letter and Nappy Decipline is fantastic.
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>Hello Everyone!
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>> Here is some Great advice from Pameala Dove from
>>the PDQ Website. Pameala is/was a nanny that has
>>Feminized numerous males over her lifetime. Enjoy!!
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>>A Nanny Writes
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>>Dear Helga,
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>>I was directed to your charming website by a lovely
>>Scottish woman I met in an Internet chat room for
>>mature dominant wives. She recommended Petticoat
>>Discipline Quarterly to me as the most comprehensive
>>website for correspondence about petticoated males and
>>she was absolutely correct. I've had a really joyful
>>time working my way through your archive material and
>>had many a giggle over the imaginative disciplines
>>your female readers have described using on their
>>husbands, sons and nephews etc. One wonders how many
>>males we pass on the street everyday (and barely
>>acknowledge their existence) hide an embarrassing
>>secret beneath their masculine clothing. I would go so
>>far as to suggest that more pantied, nappied and
>>chastity controlled men abound than many people are
>>aware of.
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>>Men can be such fools and really are their own worst
>>enemies. Do they never learn? One wonders how sweet
>>little boys can grow into such belligerent teenagers
>>and unruly, disrespectful adults after we put so much
>>hard work into raising them nicely. They really only
>>have themselves to blame. Now, whilst I don't agree
>>with the more extreme methods of discipline and
>>domination, such as enforced sissification or openly
>>public humiliation, it is apparent to me (and your
>>numerous female correspondents) that the more
>>excessive demonstrations of masculine behaviour
>>definitely have to be brought under female control. So
>>if the male won't recognise his faults and willingly
>>moderate his behaviour then we have to step-in and lay
>>down the law ourselves, even if only for our own peace
>>of mind.
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>>On the cover of Petticoat Discipline Quarterly, Aunty
>>Kathy writes: "I believe petticoat discipline to be
>>effective, fun, and helpful to society and family.
>>More importantly, it is actually true that you can
>>catch more flies with honey than vinegar. A cute
>>pinafore, silk clothing, dainty shoes, and the comfort
>>of panties or dummy is honey". I completely agree with
>>Aunty Kathy's simple statement for I truly believe
>>that the soft, yet assertive gentle touch will always
>>yield the best results in the long run. Boys
>>especially, if caught early enough and before they
>>learn bad habits from their peer groups, can benefit
>>greatly from even a relatively short period in
>>petticoats and if they are encouraged to explore their
>>own inner femininity through dressing with mother
>>lessons then that healthy and, above all, positive
>>experience will stay with them well into their adult
>>lives too. I believe that effective petticoating is as
>>much about guiding a male towards higher personal
>>standards as it is about correcting his bad ways.
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>>In my time I have had good cause to discipline a
>>number of young males in loco parentis and, like Aunty
>>Kathy, I too have seen petticoating as a golden
>>opportunity to teach moody, self-centred teenagers
>>especially, a valuable lesson about nurturing and
>>putting others first. With younger males though I've
>>generally found a good place to start is to give the
>>newly petticoated boy a pretty dolly to care for.
>>We've all had our favourite dollies when we were girls
>>so it's only fitting that a petticoated boy should
>>rightly come to know the same simple joys any little
>>girl experiences from playing with her dolly. It isn't
>>always necessary to make the boy adopt a girl's name
>>during his petticoating but I would certainly tell him
>>to give his dolly a pretty name and explain to him
>>that she must be as presentable as he was at all
>>times. He would have to learn how to dress his dolly,
>>brush and plait or braid her hair and how to tie
>>pretty ribbon bows; if she was a baby dolly then he
>>would have to learn how to bottle-feed, bathe and
>>change her too and I would encourage him to keep his
>>dolly with him at all times and whenever we went out.
>>Matching dresses for the boy and his dolly is another
>>fine idea as it builds a special bond between the boy
>>and his dolly very quickly. He will work hard to care
>>for her and keep his dolly's appearance up to his
>>newly acquired standards. Seeing a newly trained,
>>feminised male happily helping with the shopping or
>>household chores or a petticoated boy pushing his
>>dolly's pram around the park really is a satisfying
>>sight to be seen and makes all the hard work truly
>>worthwhile. With time and patience miracles can and do
>>happen. It is all about refocusing a boy's attention;
>>away from the negative and destructive and towards the
>>positive and constructive.
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>>With some males, at times it can feel like a constant
>>uphill struggle to institute a successful petticoating
>>regime but the only times I have, most regrettably,
>>turned to domestic discipline are when I've completely
>>exhausted all other ways of bringing the recidivist to
>>heel, so when a boy goes over my knee he knows he has
>>really deserved it. I never spank out of anger nor to
>>humiliate the boy (and I have never spanked a boy in
>>front of anyone other than his mother, aunt or other
>>female guardian) but to teach him a difficult lesson
>>and I'm proud to say that I have never needed to spank
>>the same male more than once. I believe the timely
>>shock of a sorely, reddened and stinging backside
>>followed by a spell in the naughty corner and an early
>>bedtime is both a discomforting and a profoundly
>>shameful experience that any male, of whatever age,
>>will remember for a long time to come, as is born out
>>by so many of the personal accounts and frank
>>confessions you have printed from mature spanked and
>>petticoated males.
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>>Moving away from thoughts of domestic discipline, it
>>is true that some young males take to petticoating
>>surprisingly quickly but its sheer poppycock to think
>>that petticoating alone will turn a naturally
>>heterosexual boy gay or make him into a mincing sissy
>>boy. I've certainly known a few older teenage boys
>>give themselves away by becoming quite aroused by
>>party frocks, frilly petties and pretty underwear and
>>some will even adopt a very sissy manner indeed when
>>dressing or being dressed, but that aspect of their
>>character was always inside of them anyway;
>>petticoating just permitted it to be brought to the
>>surface. In fact most young heterosexual males do
>>experiment with female clothes; whether they are their
>>mother's clothes, a sister's or another female's. It
>>is a natural stage in any boy's development and it is
>>perfectly understandable that young, sensitive males
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>>feminine feelings and a fear of discovery, which
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>>males will gradually come to accept their petticoating
>>by rote and so adopt a more pleasing and cooperative
>>manner around women without feeling they need to mince
>>or put on a silly, squeaky voice and exhibit prissy,
>>attention seeking behaviour. A contented, petticoated
>>male is a male who has learned to be at peace with his
>>feminine side.
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>>Deportment. At the mere mention of that word I can
>>imagine quite a few of your male readers will suddenly
>>sit bolt upright or feel an urgent need to check their
>>posture. Older readers might even bring to mind images
>>of long legged, miniskirted models from the 1960s
>>deftly swinging their legs in and out of shiny sports
>>cars (knees together now, girls!) without ever once
>>showing a glimpse of underwear. One dictionary
>>definition of deportment states that it is 'the manner
>>in which a person behaves (or conducts oneself),
>>especially in physical bearing'. Quite so.
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>>Males are physically top heavy, more so than even the
>>bustiest woman for males move from their shoulders.
>>Watch any male walking anywhere and you will see what
>>I mean. It is most noticeable in the slouching,
>>hunched shoulders and shuffles of the average teenage
>>male and can present quite a challenge to any women
>>petticoating a boy for the first time. For a start,
>>getting a teenage male to stand up straight can be
>>taxing enough; just ask any parent! The classic tried
>>and trusted technique of placing a hardback book flat
>>upon a petticoated male's head when teaching him how
>>to walk upright in a convincingly feminine manner
>>remains my favoured method and is particularly
>>pertinent when training a male in heels. Teenage boys
>>especially find high heels difficult to cope with and
>>often stumble or turn their ankles at first because
>>they do not pay close attention to how a woman
>>actually holds her body when she walks (sic). To
>>remedy this fault, when training a teenage boy to
>>heels I would mark out a line along the floor with a
>>roll of drafting tape, from one end of my hallway to
>>the other (about 20 feet in length) and, instructing
>>the boy to place one foot in front of the other, a
>>pace apart and directly on the tape as he walked along
>>it, I would tell the boy to hold his hips so that he
>>could physically feel them sway from side to side,
>>mimicking a catwalk model's movement. At the end of
>>the line of tape he would then turn on the balls of
>>his high heeled shoes and walk back along the same
>>line to the starting point, all the while keeping his
>>spine straight and shoulders back so as not to
>>dislodge the book from his head. And then he would be
>>told to repeat the same exercise again and again and
>>again. To a casual observer this seems a mite
>>exaggerated at first but, with constant repetition and
>>practice, this method successfully teaches any male
>>the basics of posture, grace and elegance when walking
>>like a female in high heels. Refinement in movement
>>comes later for none of us can run before we can walk;
>>especially in heels! Sometimes a short, flared skirt
>>or wraparound kilt would help as the swing of his
>>skirt would match the movements of the boy's hips and
>>help him to establish a smooth and naturally graceful
>>feminine rhythm to his gait.
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>>One little addition of my own devising, intended to
>>encourage the petticoated male to keep his head up and
>>facing forwards, is to give the petticoated male
>>clip-on earrings to wear that have tiny silver bells
>>hanging from them. The purpose, he will quickly learn,
>>is to walk delicately and lightly and not to make the
>>bells tinkle at all. It is more difficult than it
>>sounds; I've even tried it myself. Other young
>>dressers, transvestites and feminised males I've
>>worked with have also benefited from being taped and
>>tucked, as this clever technique helps them to achieve
>>a more convincingly feminine swing to their hips
>>whilst walking and a more visually pleasing feminine
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>>be appalled by the general state of men's table
>>manners. All too often I see males treat knives and
>>forks as weapons and literally attack their food,
>>lowering their heads to cram sustenance into their
>>mouths. There really is no need to act like this.
>>Knives, forks and spoons are implements, not weapons
>>and should be used as an aid to eating, not as a means
>>to fill the mouth as quickly as possible. Food should
>>be chewed with the mouth shut! Ladies eat with
>>refinement, using the knife and fork correctly, always
>>cutting their food into small, manageable pieces and
>>lifting the food by the tines and the bridge of the
>>fork to the mouth. One will never see a lady or a well
>>raised girl lower her head, as to a pig's trough, and
>>shovel her food into her mouth. This is something that
>>I would always take time to instil in any boy that I
>>was petticoating at the time. Manners cost nothing but
>>they mean everything and good table manners especially
>>are the mark of the nicely raised young lady.
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>>Well, now that I have that out of my system I want to
>>briefly mention 'the Curtsey'. Teaching the male to
>>curtsey is an excellent way for him to find his
>>natural 'feminine' centre of gravity for, in my
>>opinion, there's nothing worse than a badly trained,
>>petticoated male or sissy maid who cannot execute a
>>full curtsey properly. The dainty lifting of the dress
>>hem and petticoat (betwixt the thumb and first and
>>second fingers only, please with the ring ringer
>>slightly crooked and the little finger fully extended)
>>should be executed at exactly the same moment that the
>>male dips in his curtsey and lowers his eyes. It
>>should be one, singular, fluid movement of his body
>>made with the minimal of fuss and, as any well trained
>>maid knows, the purpose of the curtsey is to show
>>subservience, obedience and respect to one's elders
>>and betters and not to openly display one's underwear,
>>unless specifically instructed to. With perfect
>>execution only the dark band of the stocking tops
>>should be glimpsed and not the suspender straps or
>>panties. In time and with much practice, practice,
>>practice, even the gawkiest petticoated male teenager
>>or young adult can execute a perfect curtsey, learn to
>>walk beautifully in heels and exhibit excellent table
>>manners and refined feminine mannerisms with a natural
>>grace and elegance; so becoming a source of pride and
>>joy for his mother, aunt or guardian in the process.
>>It never fails. (One quick thought - I wonder how many
>>modern teenage girls and young women nowadays know how
>>to curtsey; not many I would think. The days of the
>>debutante and elegant young ladies being presented at
>>court appear to be long gone.)
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>>Of course petticoating isn't for everyone; one size
>>doesn't necessarily fit all so it's understandable
>>that some women have instead turned to nappies and
>>nursery discipline to control their troublesome males.
>>Teenage, nappied males, such as sons and nephews can
>>be particularly sweet if they're well trained and even
>>some adult children and mature, nappied husbands can
>>make very amusing babies and playthings for the
>>naturally dominant woman. In my opinion whatever
>>method of discipline works for you and gets the
>>results you want is the correct discipline to use.
>>There's no written rule that says males have to be out
>>of nappies by a certain age but, all the same, I am
>>still surprised by those women who deliberately
>>regress their males to a fulltime babyhood as I can't
>>understand why any intelligent, self-assured woman
>>would wish to create more work for herself by taking
>>on a fulltime, big baby. My view is that nursery
>>discipline should ultimately benefit the woman and not
>>chain her to an endless round of nappy changes, bottle
>>feeds and attending to every passing whim of her
>>'baby'. Just who is training whom here? I suppose
>>there are some dominant mothers, aunts and wives who
>>genuinely seek out such an intense 'babyist' lifestyle
>>for their own personal reasons but then, considering
>>my particular interests, who I am to judge how others
>>choose to live? Each to her own is my philosophy. A
>>woman I've known for many years has successfully
>>raised four boys on her own, all of whom were briefly
>>under strict nappy discipline (as opposed to nursery
>>discipline) through their awkward teenage years. It
>>did them a world of good. They are all now happily
>>married to imaginative, assertive wives and although
>>none are nappied any longer it's clear that the boys;
>>now all young men, have learned their early lessons
>>well and hold their wives and mother in the highest
>>regard, as they should.
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>>I suppose it's inevitable that there's going to be
>>some cross-over with petticoating and nursery
>>discipline. I confess I've even done it myself with a
>>stubborn teenager who repeatedly spoiled the pretty
>>underwear I had carefully chosen for him; returning
>>the boy to baby dresses, terry nappies and frilly,
>>plastic 'baby' pants after a spanking to shamefully
>>remind him why he was being disciplined in the first
>>place. In that particular case it became necessary to
>>nappy the awkward boy, day and night, for the best
>>part of a month to ensure he had fully learned his
>>lesson but I've noticed with most teenagers and
>>younger, adult males the mere prospect of being made
>>to wear bulky terry nappies and rustling plastic pants
>>is usually embarrassing enough to make them buck their
>>ideas up very fast and work hard to keep their quiet
>>panties. A male in that situation quickly learns to
>>see his dainty panties and petticoats as a big step-up
>>from nappies and plastic pants and a reward for
>>continuing good behaviour. For ultimately it always
>>comes down to reward and punishment with males,
>>doesn't it?
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>>On a slightly different tack, the dominant Scottish
>>woman I briefly mentioned at the top of my letter told
>>me that both her husband and adult stepson wear
>>permanent chastity devices as both males were chronic
>>self-abusers until she stepped in and took control of
>>them. The husband, she told me, had originally
>>advertised for a dominant wife to take control of his
>>life but he got more than he had imagined or bargained
>>for when he agreed to marry this ingeniously minded
>>Scottish woman. The device the males wear is
>>apparently called a 'Curve'; I had to look it up on
>>the Internet as I'm not au fait with the newer types
>>of chastity aids yet and a most disconcerting piece of
>>equipment it looks too! She has had both of her males
>>fitted and locked and quite proudly boasted that the
>>keys hang from a slim, silver chain around her neck.
>>Her 'wee laddies', as she referred to the two males in
>>her life, are also petticoated, pantied, pierced and
>>completely under her thumb. Released from their
>>chastity only to wash and see to their personal
>>hygiene, they are also permitted a mere seven minutes
>>(by the egg timer), once a fortnight, to manually
>>'relieve' their masculine frustrations. There is one
>>other female keyholder involved in this disciplinarian
>>relationship and that is her stepson's fiancé who has
>>taken to her new, dominant role as a duck to water
>>and, I was told, is only too eager to learn as much as
>>she can about male chastity control from her
>>prospective mother-in-law. Those are two,
>>single-minded and very determined women; I like their
>>style. I've never used chastity control on males of
>>any age but since my retirement it is a subject in
>>which I am becoming more and more interested and I
>>think it merits further study so thank you to both
>>you, Aunty Helga and Saffy for your very interesting
>>area of Petticoat Discipline Quarterly covering male
>>chastity. You've given me something new to think
>>about!
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>>In recent months I've become something of an
>>unofficial, online Agony Aunty in some of the chat
>>rooms I like to visit and I'm pleased to note that
>>petticoating and nursery discipline are still as
>>widely supported and as prevalent as ever. I've also
>>heard tell of beauty pageant events for young
>>petticoated males in America, which I think is a
>>wonderful idea for promoting petticoating and a
>>feminine way of life and I really hope it catches on
>>over here. There are a great many mature women, both
>>here and abroad, who continue to petticoat or nappy
>>(diaper) their husbands and adult offspring and I am
>>so delighted with the new generation of younger,
>>assertive mothers and aunties discovering for
>>themselves the benefits of training their growing boys
>>in pretty 'little girl' style dresses. I'm sure these
>>particular boys will grow into respectful adults, no
>>matter what their eventual, personal preferences turn
>>out to be, and never forget their invaluable,
>>petticoated lessons learned at their mummies knees'.
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>>One final point I'd like to raise and that is how
>>shocked I've become with the growing, unladylike
>>behaviour of some teenage girls and young women
>>nowadays. Female public drunkenness, swearing and lewd
>>behaviour are anathema to me. I blame slack parenting,
>>the availability of cheap alcohol, drug taking,
>>'reality' television and the tawdry sensationalism of
>>the yellow press for undermining our traditional,
>>homely values and leading the less-disciplined members
>>of our sex into bad ways. In my day no nicely raised
>>young lady would ever deign to lower herself to such
>>base, underclass standards. Something needs to be
>>done; right now. I'm afraid that it might be time for
>>petticoating (and possibly even nursery discipline) to
>>be extended, albeit temporarily, to wayward girls; if
>>only to bring them back to the path of righteousness,
>>feminine decency and simple good manners. That's just
>>my opinion; call it old fashioned or out of date if
>>you like but I know I am not the only old biddy to
>>think this way.
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>>Well it's been lovely to discover Petticoat Discipline
>>Quarterly and my apologies to all of you in the PDQ
>>offices for this rather long and involved letter.
>>There is so much more that I would like to write about
>>but I think I shall save that for another time
>>perhaps, as its getting late now. I will make a point
>>to visit Petticoat Discipline Quarterly more often now
>>and I will most definitely be recommending your unique
>>and wonderful website to other women I happen across
>>with petticoated, nursery disciplined or chastity
>>controlled males. I wish you all the very best of luck
>>with the future.
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>>With Love,
>>Pamela Dove
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>>Thank you for writing Pamela, I'm sure our readers
>>were thrilled to read such a detailed and instructive
>>letter and if you have time, perhaps write again.
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>>Helga
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