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However your post above raises another issue for me, that I've wanted to bring up for some time with you and your beliefs.
That issue is the whole male anal penetration thing. See, the thing is, Bim, many people simply cannot accept anal sex. It certainly is true that some people, men and women, enjoy it, even prefer it; I've seen it myself.
It's not a matter of being taught correctly, either; believe me, I've tried to accept it myself, on a few occasions, with very good 'swordsmen' if you will. I WANT to enjoy it. I know that many like it... but for me, and many others, it simply feels HORRID. There is no enjoyment in it for me; I start erect, but become totally flacid and shrunk instantly; I've been taught to accept it by the best, and every time, it just makes me nauseus and sore. I enjoy a vibrator on the external area, but that is absolutely it; my anus, much to my chagrin, remains an exit only.
And I know I'm not the only one.
This is why your insistance on it as a levelling agent of the gender playing-field simply doesn't wash with many of us.