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Date Posted:14:14:53 04/15/12 Sun In reply to:
's message, "Re: To Edita" on 03:31:58 04/15/12 Sun
I find this whole story fascinating. Maybe it's easier to do these things in other countries. Here in America, all it would take is a nosey neighbor calling the CPS and that would end that pretty quick. Knowing the CPS though, what the mother is doing would be preferable to what happens to some of kids once the CPS gets a hold of them.
I have to say the way you describe your daughter and her friends' interactions with the two boys doesn't sounds as bad as I thought it might. One boy didn't like it and left. The other boy did, and his mother knows. Some people might still frown on it, but I don't think this particular scenario sounds all that bad.
As to wives feminizing husbands, I'm mixed on that. If he's been showing an interest, maybe dressing a little or something like that, I don't see a problem. As long as he goes in there knowing what's going on or really wanting it.
I've posted elsewhere that some men finally come to terms with who they are later in life and transition later. With the pressures of family, society other things, some can't deal with it or try to ignore it until it gets to be too much. The sad part of late transition is the way it ends some marriages. She loved him until he transitioned. And like I posted elsewhere, some of these new women loved their wives dearly. Even the lady I mentioned in the other post didn't want a divorce. It was her wife's choice.
So, I have to say that Gender Dysphoria is a serious thing, and not a kink or a fetish. In a lot of these late cases of transitions, they really had no idea what all of the feelings really meant and that they could do something about it until later. That's changing more and more as people begin to understand what it's all about. Even the public is becoming more aware. Though there is still a lot of hate out there, there is more acceptance and understanding than ever before.
My point is, if a wife is doing this behind his back by slipping hormones into his food or drink and forcing him. Like it's something she wants to do to him, shame on her. If he's not good enough for you as he is, divorce him and let him live his life as he is. It's not all about you. On the other hand, if he wants this and you accept him as he is, it's pretty amazing that you would be there for him as he becomes she and after.
I'm sure this goes against some people's beliefs here, though a lot of what I read on this page I still think is just fantasy, but I know Gender Dysphoria is not a joke. I just heard about a beautiful 25 year old trans woman. She was so pretty and had her whole life ahead of her, but it became too much for her. I know she's in a better place now, but I truly wish I could be there for her and others like her to tell them there will be better days ahead if you fight through this inner pain.
Not trying to be a downer. That boy playing with your daughter is pretty lucky and may make a pretty girl some day. Anybody who reads this stuff and is serious about it should take some time to consider things. It may sound good to you, but what about the person you want to do this to? The fact is, this sight is correct about one thing. The resources are out there now more than ever to make it a reality if you know what you're doing. Just never forget the love.
It does sound like you are using good judgement when you say you aren't showing your wife off to the women who say they are interested in feminizing their husbands unless they are serious about it. I trust that you are using that same judgement when you help mothers feminize their sons or husbands. Not just in determining whether she is serious but in deciding whether those boys and men really are good candidates. It's like the two boys with your daugter. One wanted it, and one didn't, and it wasn't pushed on the one who didn't want it.
Anyway, whether I agree or disagree with some things you post or really believe what I'm reading, thank you for sharing. I do believe things like this do happen, which is why I've chosen to comment.