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Date Posted: 11:31:44 09/08/15 Tue
Author: Gareth
Subject: Re: Help for being with a girl who is used to spankings
In reply to: Emily 's message, "Re: Help for being with a girl who is used to spankings" on 13:57:18 09/04/15 Fri

Not too late. Anything is helpful.

I don't know what is happening with me and Cherry. We are kind of together as bf/gf, and I am kind of like a big brother to her. Sometimes we sleep together and make out but we don't have sex yet. I haven't spanked her, either. She has her own room at our house now and my mom is happy to support her, but she also had a job as a waitress for August because she felt guilty about the cost, which is really only food. Cleaning out my mom's project room as a room for her just made the basement more crowded, and it has been hard for all of us with one bathroom and three people, but it doesn't cost anything. Cherry also told me she got the waitressing job just to be doing something on her own.

I think in a lot of ways Cherry isn't really ready for a relationship. Maybe we are having the kind of relationship she is ready for. Even though she is 19 in a lot of ways she is like a 13-year-old just from how sheltered she was, and her being molested by her brother has complicated her sexual growth besides.

We just went back to school, both me and Cherry, who started school again this year as a freshman. Sonja talked to someone in the administration who was very sympathetic, and they readmitted her and even found some kind of scholarship for her for one year. After that I guess she will have to get a job, although my mom says that she will help some, and Sonja is talking about doing a crowdsourced funding thing. Sonja has been amazing. I guess she and Cherry had really started to bond and when I just went and grabbed Cherry she felt guilty that she hadn't done more for her, or even tried to contact her after she didn't come back. They are rooming together in the dorms again. Sonja had been thinking of finding a place off campus but still had the option for a dorm room which she could have canceled sometime in August. But when Cherry agreed to try college again, she decided she would rather room in the dorms with Cherry. So far, she has only slept there twice, and has slept with me the rest of the time, but it feels really important that she has someplace that is just hers.

I was worried that I wouldn't be happy to be with Cherry when I saw all the other girls back at college, but I am. And Cherry doesn't mind if I look, either. Cherry has given up the schoolgirl outfits, but Sonja has her dressing in other things that are really sexy, and I know everybody notices her when we walk by. She is thinking about getting involved in drama. They are looking for tech crew, so I encouraged her to do that.

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