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Date Posted: 13:57:18 09/04/15 Fri
Author: Emily
Subject: Re: Help for being with a girl who is used to spankings
In reply to: Gareth 's message, "Help for being with a girl who is used to spankings" on 14:09:16 07/05/15 Sun

This may be a little late but I figured it couldn't hurt to respond. I was raised in a family where I got spanked pretty much every day as a young girl and still as an older teen. I ran away from home when I was 18 to go to college. If you had asked me whether I liked being spanked I would have told you you were crazy and that I hated it, but I ended up with two boyfriends my freshman year and got spanked by both of them.

The first one I think took advantage of me and the fact that I was used to submitting. He had spanked his sisters growing up and was from a background similar to mine, but he hadn't run away. The second one who I stayed with for a couple of years was nice to me and very caring. He only ended up giving me spankings after we had been together for a couple of months and had talked about my spankings a lot. Even though I hated spankings, they were so much a part of my life that it didn't seem normal to not get spanked. A girlfriend of mine told me she thought it was like the way she craved creamed spinach. She didn't really like it, but it was a comfort food and something she was used to from her childhood, so she would eat it as an adult when she was under stress.

I don't know what your situation with Cherry is, if she is still with you or if it is as a girlfriend, but I would not spank her to start with and only do it after a lot of discussion. Definitely give her a lot of physical affection if she likes what you do. One of the things about my growing up is that practically the only time my father ever touched me was when he spanked me, so a lot of my feelings about love got confused with spanking. Cherry should definitely not be accepting spankings to get the physical attention she craves.

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