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Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Harry [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 23:23:56 02/27/12 Mon In reply to: PJ 's message, "Why bare, if it is done that way?" on 19:29:10 01/18/12 Wed I think PJ (and his father) have got it about spot on! But also, it feels entirely natural to correct in that way. The object IS to sting, so why impede the progress of the punishment with clothing? There is also the safety factor of watching the progress of the punishment to ensure that it is not excessive, particularly if a cane or paddle are the preferred implements. The only caveat is that baring should NOT be about humiliation, but about effective correction. We take great care that it is done in such a way as to avoid embarrassment, particularly for teens. It should be about a red bottom, not a red face! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Why bare, if it is done that way? Author: Matteo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:52 03/01/12 Thu Never had a discussion about it with my dad but I would guess that #2 and #3 applied with him as they did with me as a dad. You want the sting to be memorable but not damaging and a bare bottom promotes both of those goals. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]