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>>Robert, Tom, >> >>I don`t know whether yoy`ve had a chance to look at >>Ivy Leaf`s article called the Other side of Corsetry >>yet but I`m sure you`d find it interesting. In the >>topic she attempts to >>explain why corsetry and more specifically a girdle >>can be so fascinating to the male adolescent mind and >>that the various "stimulants" can be emotionally >>"overwheling" - especially the effect of satin. So >>you`re right when you say >>a girdle fetish is very difficult to control. I also >>know this from personal experience as my wife often >>wears a 1960s style firm control paneled girdle under >>an attractive dress for me when we go out somewhere >>and I have to confess I find it almost impossible to >>control my girdle fetish. >>It sounds to me that your sister-in-law knew exactly >>what she was doing and was well informed. Perhaps it >>was a good idea to resist temptation? The thing I find >>really interesting though is that you wanted some kind >>of personal connection with her by wearing her girdle. >>I wonder if that is the real key to understanding the >>root cause of a fetish. That the fetish object takes >>the place of desired affection at that early >>vunerable age? I don`t know I`m not a psychologist. >>Just a thought. >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>>A strong girdle fetish can be a difficult emotion to >>>control. In some cases, it's ok to just let go and >>>enjoy, but, other times it should be controlled. >>> >>>The best example of this for me was the story I told >>>just this past Saturday, when many years ago, I >almost >>>put on my sister-in-laws girdle. Had I gotten found >>>out it could of been very uncomfortable situation. My >>>girdle fetish emotions were at a very high level that >>>day. And there were some definite reasons. >>> >>>Everyone who has a fetish has triggers that will set >>>it off or raise the intensity of that fetish. This >day >>>I had that happen in more than one way. >>> >>>As soon as my sister-in-law walked in the room in a >>>dress it got me started. I associate dress wearing >and >>>girdle wearing as one. My wife only wears a girdle >>>with a dress so to me one means the other. I had >often >>>wondered if my wife's sister even wore a girdle. I >>>rarely saw her wearing a dress so here was my chance >>>to try and get an answer. >>> >>>So when she sat down and I could see the tight hem of >>>her girdle showing through the thin dress it just >>>really got to me. Anytime I'm in the same room, with >>>an attractive woman and I know for a fact she is >>>wearing a girdle, my fetish goes into high. Right >>>away I start wondering, what color is it, how firm, >is >>>it high waist, a girdle with double panels or even >>>triple panels, does it have lace on the legs or >>>elsewhere? And most of all, is my sister-in-law >>>enjoying all the girdle wearing sensations that I >know >>>she feels at this moment? >>> >>>So if all this wasn't enough, I then find out she is >>>going to take off her dress and probably also her >>>girdle. At my house when this happened, it meant I >>>might get a chance to put my wife's girdle on. >>>Secretly. >>> >>>When my sister-in-law came back into the room without >>>her dress or girdle in hand, after a reasonable >amount >>>of time, I had to go and see what I could find. If >she >>>had taken her girdle of I was hoping to see exactly >>>what was her choice in girdles. Most people could >care >>>less but my fetish was in full swing. >>> >>>So as I told in the previous post her dress, >pantyhose >>>and girdle were on a chair just outside the bathroom >>>door. What I found odd, was she left the girdle on >>>top, in plain sight. I would think a young women >would >>>not want her girdle displayed for everyone to see. >>>Especially since I was in the house. Everyone is >going >>>to walk past it on the way to the bathroom. I would >>>think the natural thin to do would be to fold the >>>pantyhose and panty girdle inside of her dress. >>> >>>Right then a question popped into my head. Is she >>>teasing me with her girdle? Did she find out from my >>>wife at some point that I have a girdle fetish? I'm >>>sure she saw me looking a her girdled legs earlier. >>>Did she know I might be tempted to try her girdle on >>>with it being so close to the bathroom? I will never >>>know unfortunately. Some woman do like to tease. I >can >>>tell you that in the years since this happened she >>>never avoids the chance to flirt with me. It's >>obvious. >>> >>>Bottom line is it's a blessing that I resisted >putting >>>her girdle on that day. But a fetish can be almost >>>impossible to control in some situations, and this >was >>>one of those times. If she would have left her dress, >>>pantyhose and girdle "in" the bathroom somewhere, I >>>know I couldn't have resisted. I would of had my >>>sister-in-laws girdle on just as soon as the door >>>closed behind me and I had my pants and my boring >>>man's underwear off. I can only imagine the thrill I >>>would have gotten as I pulled that tight girdle up >and >>>on me only minutes after she had taken it off. I >>>would've had to be very careful not to get to >>>"excited". I know I would of been very "hard" even >>>before I got her girdle on. >>> >>>I will say though, if I would has just thrown caution >>>to the wind and took my sister-in-laws girdle into >the >>>bathroom and put it on, I sure would had enjoyed it. >>>It would had been nice to know that during all these >>>years of getting together, that I would know that I >>>had tried on the same girdle that she wore only >>>minutes earlier that day. It would for me, be a very >>>nice personal connection with her. >>> >>>Who knows, maybe someday I'll get another chance to >>>put her girdle on. The way she flirts with me >>>sometimes, I wouldn't completely rule it out. >>> >>>Robert > >Robert, >That was an opportunity of a lifetime that GOD was >giving you. If she left her girdle to be seen in plain >sight it was because she wanted you to wear it. Not >only would you have had a wonderful orgasm but it >would have opened the door to a relationship with a >woman who would have accompanied you to heaven. >Next time be a little bit more adventurous. >Good luck, >Martin

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