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Date Posted: 17:58:40 02/27/26 Fri
Author: Clara
Subject: Re: Tom
In reply to: Lil 's message, "Re: Tom" on 00:22:43 02/25/26 Wed

Ok here is where Sophia and I are at trying to track down Toms, it is very hard with out a surname - obviously

We have tried contacting VOY several times and they have not responded.

I have found him on Facebook but he has not been on there since 2023, I found a chat site that he run a girdle chat on there and again no response, found him on Pinterest again no response and been even longer since he was on there.

Now he mentioned he grew up in the golden age of girdles I assume there he is referring to the 50's/60's. He has never mentioned family as I am aware ie: Spouse/ex Spouse or children.

As much as it hurt Sophia and I, well Sophia has been going over all the discussions on here trying to find something when she has time. She is back into her Ballett training with the local small scale company now as well as assisting in teaching of ballett + her studies but her time is limited. But she has asked a buddy at the college where she is doing her diploma for help. I won't go into details but he is good at getting to places online that he shouldn't.

But it is something that we must consider that their is the chance that Toms has suffered some sort of health issue that no longer allows him to get online that has left him permanently incapacitated like a stroke, is going through a some sort of major health battle and doesn't have the capacity to keep on eye on things here and is focusing soley on his health like undergoing cancer treatment or I am sad to say has passed away.

Now the question is do we continue to wait not knowing or do we create a new group? Now if we create a new group where do we go, stick with Voy or go else where? A friend of mine who posts on here occasionally is the admin for a girdle/shapewear group on facebook called "I wear Girdles"

I am obviously hopeful that we will hear from tom but these are facts I think it is time for us to seriously consider.

Clara

>I mailed about two weeks ago and as yet have no reply.

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