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Date Posted: 22:30:58 02/14/19 Thu
Author: Carlo Soldevilla
Subject: Poem for Career – Which One by Carlo G. Soldevilla

Poem for Career – Which One by Carlo G. Soldevilla
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Which One
by Carlo G. Soldevilla
Written on Feb. 15, 2019


It’s so hard to decide which one (Pls. refer to the ‘cut & paste’ talks below)
But I agree with the billionaire’s decision

Follow your heart, It matters most
Win-win solution is best but…..

….there are also times you have to balance and to ponder what to do:
To stay together ‘in love’ or to prioritize work with this consequence “ I let you go.’

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Based on the talks below (cut & paste from nclex-rn link:

Posted by apple from IP 98.226.211.185 on May 15, 2018 at 04:21:02:
pasensya na sa post kong ito, may ihihingi lang sana ako ng opinyon nyo na mga nurses na nandito
na rin sa US. halos 3 years na akong nurse dito sa Amerika, single pa ako pero may boyfriend ako
ngayon for 10 straight years, nasa Pilipinas sya. ayaw nya tumira dito sa US, may maganda syang
work sa pinas. ako naman nanghihinayang sa opportunity na mayroon ako dito to earn and save up
kaya hindi ako makauwi pa sa pinas for good para makasama sya, magpakasal at makapagstart na
ng sarili naming pamilya. di ko sya masagot kung kailan ako uuwi for good (nagbabakasyon naman
ako every year), ang sabi ko kasi sa kanya gusto ko pa makapag ipon nang husto. sabi nya bigyan
na muna raw namin ng space ang isat isa para mapag isipan mabuti kung ano talaga priorities
namin sa buhay. mahal namin ang isat isa pero di nya raw kaya ang LDR. di ko na alam kung ano
ang gagawin ko. mag iipon ba ako ng ilang taon at uuwi na sa pinas for good para makasama sya.
or mag move on na lang kami sa kanya kanya naming mga buhay. :(


Posted by nav from IP 222.127.167.61 on May 16, 2018 at 22:38:14:
In Reply to: Puso o Amerika posted by apple on May 15, 2018 at 04:21:02:
naalala ko tuloy yung movie ni Aga at ni Leah. Why not make him try for a
tourist visa first, he might have a change of heart. If all else fails, then
it's time for a serious talk 10 years of your time is not a walk in the park
for you to get to that point in your relationship. Reassess whether it's worth
it to give him up for you to continue working in the US and having to gamble
your time and maybe meeting someone new or umuwi sa Pinas and be with your bf
and eventually tie the knot and have a contingency plan on what to do next
career wise or when it comes to the financial aspect. Whichever you choose as
long as you are happy and with no regrets.


Posted by Gray Matter from IP 110.54.243.235 on May 16, 2018 at 00:41:20:
In Reply to: Puso o Amerika posted by apple on May 15, 2018 at 04:21:02:
I agree with tiktak, secure your future muna. Kung hindi magwork-out relationship ninyo, at least
may babalikan ka.
The fact na nandyan ka na/ka pa sa US even after knowing he doesnt want to go there, means kaya
mo to live independently.
Malaki ang difference ng nurse sa pinas compared sa US, mad-degrade career mo. Unlike sya, big
possibility na ma-upgrade ang career if he moves in with you. Personally, i dont want to be with
someone who doesnt see that its a win-win situation to stay in US; either his downright selfish or
simply impractical, imo.


Posted by tik tak ti from IP 73.24.143.185 on May 15, 2018 at 19:32:10:
In Reply to: Puso o Amerika posted by apple on May 15, 2018 at 04:21:02:
pede sabay. pero kung isa lang, alin ba mas gusto mo? if i was in your
position(a guy, nurse in the US, not married with no kids), i'd choose US.
he's getting good money, you're getting good money, depende na lang kung
sino ang magbibigay.. if he's really good to you, at di ka nya susumbatan in
the future, in case mawalan sya ng pera at trabaho, then i'd probably(35%)
go home. but see, if he's earning well in PH, he'll definitely earn well in
the US too(parehas pa kayo)..
wag ka gumaya dun sa mga yumaman, tas nabaldado, tas nagregret ngayon.. be
responsible with your decisions.. be proud! pano kung nabaldado ka tas wala
kang pera?! eh di mas mahirap yun.
wait til you become a US citizen, pakasal kayo, isama mo sa US for vacation,
pag di nya gusto, uwi. but get that US passport(who knows maghiwalay din
kayo sa future) for you and your kids.


Posted by Brad from IP 124.106.133.185 on May 15, 2018 at 04:42:26:
In Reply to: Puso o Amerika posted by apple on May 15, 2018 at 04:21:02:
Ikaw lang talaga makakasagot sa tanong mo. Dapat kasi pinag-usapan ninyo yan nung
bago pa lang kayo magkasintahan sa Pinas. Tingin ko yang LDR pang-komiks lang
talaga yan lalo na wala naman kayong mga anak.


Posted by Mmk from IP 199.235.192.95 on May 15, 2018 at 11:35:10:
In Reply to: Re: Puso o Amerika posted by Brad on May 15, 2018 at 04:42:26:
Advice ko lng syo money is not everything.
Madali kumita ng pera. Ang mahalaga masaya
k gngwa mo at wala ng nsasagaang tao.
Mabilis lumipas ang oras at hindi mo n
mbabalik ang mga nasayang n panahon. Ive
been there. Nagpunta din ako ng US para
subukan ko ang buhay jan. Pero its not for
me. Iba p tlagapg kasama mo ang mahal mo s
buhay. Gngwa ko ngpatayo ako ng apartment
s pinas para my income ako s pinas. So far
masaya ako s nging desisyon ko. Less
stress at kasama ko p pamilya ko. Ang
buhay s US fast pace nkakapagod
nkakastress. Plus being a nurse you need
to work night shift which is hindi rin
healthy. I have a billionaire pt he is my
inspiration kaya umuwi ako ng pinas. At 40
he is bed ridden sinabi nya skin n madami
sya regrets kc puro work sya. Sabi do what
makes you happy. We only live ones. Money
is nothing pg my sakit at matanda n tyo.


Posted by llk from IP 172.88.74.92 on May 18, 2018 at 22:17:53:
In Reply to: Re: Re: Puso o Amerika posted by Mmk on May 15, 2018 at 11:35:10:
i dont know depende siguro sa personality mas stressed kasi ako sa pinas
masmadami nangengeelam ng buhay ko kahit di ko kilala dito i feel like i have
more freedon since walang pakealamero at they mind their own buisness here
kaya not planning to go back sa pinas soon i love my job as a homehealth
nurse napakaflexible ng oras ko hehe and panay travel nlng just enjoying
life.. ive been an icu and snf nurse both reaally stressfull job kaya ayaw ko
na bumalik although icu makes alot but not worth the stress lol.


Posted by likraxhos@yahoo.com from IP 37.228.251.101 on June 09, 2018 at 03:42:24:
In Reply to: Re: Re: Re: Puso o Amerika posted by llk on May 18, 2018 at 22:17:53:
career ako...pag walang lovelife I'm alive...Pag walang career gutom ka girl,
u cant travel, u cant help ur family, u feel underestimated..hehe. My bf
before told me to resign from my work tapos magpapakasal daw kami and ako
magiging housewife. Mayaman siya eh. Cant imagine my life just in the house
waiting for my husband all day..hahaha..Nagbreak kami but it was worth
it.hehe..Then I found another guy, he is not rich, 10 years older and he
supports me in my decisions kasi gusto niya rin mag abroad.hahaha....so yup
kami pa rin..Pray for it girl.Godbless!
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