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Date Posted: 12:14:16 10/15/16 Sat
Author: Clara
Subject: Church discipline



My Dad died when I was little and my mother had a hard time, with no money and such. When I was 9 she found salvation in a small fundamentalist church.
She got a good job as secretary for our Pastor and she was happy again, with friends and all and I was happy for her.
But for me it became awful as our church preached strict discipline, especially for girls, and that men are in charge of women with the Three P's...provide for them, protect them and punish them.

Because I had no father the Pastor, and then other Elders, took over my discipline. At 9/10 I got many bare bottom spankings which were a bit embarrassing but mostly scary cuz a hand spanking stung so bad.
By 11/12 yrs old it got serious as instead of just flipping up my skirt and taking my panties down I was made to remove my skirt and my panties often ended up totally off - usually because I kicked them off while being spanked.

Also the Pastor being following up my hand spanking with an implement - a dozen or so with paddle mostly, so my bottom was sore for hours after.
Plus, I was starting puberty so being half naked in front of the Pastor (and often other church elders) became quite embarrassing as I was sensitive about my developing body.

At 13/14 I was still being spanked 2 or 3 times a month and I was angry and resentful because I was getting spanked by 3 Elders, often in front of them all and sometimes two or all three would spank me in the same session.
I was old enough to have sexual feelings and having to take off my clothes (often down to just a slip - no bra) in front of all those men made me feel like they were enjoying seeing my pubic patch and bare bottom - especially when I was kicking or dancing around after.

And when I was over their laps or bent over a desk or such their hands could be all over me - though I was only ever spanked on bottom cheeks/thighs - it was often HARD with paddle or strap or switch so that I'd end up howling and babbling with blisters/welts that lasted until the next day.

At 15 I began complaining to my mother but she was totally invested in the church and all she did was ask that I only be disciplined once a month. That was slightly better except that the Pastor/Elders made sure that Every-3rd- Sunday session was extremely painful and humiliating!

It finally ended when I was 17 and my wish came true when Mom re-married a pretty nice guy from our church! My spankings didn't end but at last I had a father to spank me instead of being under the control of our Pastor and Elders.

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