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Date Posted: 12:30:01 02/07/12 Tue
Author: michele
Subject: Re: My son's third day in a skirt!
In reply to: Natalie 's message, "My son's third day in a skirt!" on 06:17:26 02/07/12 Tue

Natalie,

Wow, a lot has happened in less than a week. It's difficult for me to sort out my reactions to your tale and I'm sure it must be harder for you and your son.

First, it's clear to me that you gave your son the choice to dress or not, especially on the third day. That seems right to me.

I'm glad your son is willing to experiment and receives so much acceptance at home and from Elena and her son. I certainly understand your son discovering he liked feminine clothes - I've crossdressed since I was 15 (secretly most of the time).

I really wonder about the girl with the cell phone. She blackmailed your son and involved other girls. Has she apologized? I'd be very disinclined to trust her.

I can't imagine the boys in school will not learn of your son's dressing. They will be compelled to tease him. The boys won't be able to stop themselves; if a boy doesn't tease him, his identity will be questioned. Unfair, inaccurate, but I suggest you and your son try to prepare for it. Perhaps the mother of the girl your son visits will stop her from blabbing, but what of the others? If I'm wrong and the girls don't talk, I'll be very surprised.

On the other hand, if he finds a group of genuinely supportive girl friends, the effect on him could be wonderful.

I'm sure others will have different opinions and you'll hear them.

Love to you both,

michele

>When my son came home from school two hours ago I
>asked him how it was and he said, that his classmate
>had asked him to come over to her house again. I asked
>him if she had tried to blackmail him again and he
>said no. I asked him if he wants to go and he blushed
>and after thinking for a moment, he said "yes". I
>asked him if he was sure and he said "yes".
>I asked him what he wanted to wear and he shrugged his
>shoulders. I suggested to wear the blue corduroy
>jumper his sister had sorted out for him. We went
>upstairs and I showed him the dress. He nodded and I
>asked what he wanted to wear with it. He again didn't
>know and I showed him a dark red sweatshirt with a
>hood and dark red tights. He again just nodded. I
>asked him if he was sure and he said "yes". I asked
>him again and he said "yes, I want to wear this".
>That's what I wanted to hear and I told him to change
>and left his room. A few minutes ago he came down.
>fully dressed. He looks so cut, I wish I could add a
>photo...
>I asked him how he like the dress and he said it was
>nice. Then he said, that he noticed how much softer
>and nicer girl's clothes are, that he likes the
>feeling of the tights and that girl's underwear was
>also softer than his boy's stuff. He said that the
>sweatshirt and the dress were so much lighter than his
>clothes and wondered why boys and girls can't just
>wear the same kind of clothes.
>He also said that he does not want any of his friends
>see him in the dress and the tights. He is afraid that
>they would ridicule him. I told him not to worry and
>that he we would be very careful.
>I drove him over and today I went to the door with
>him. The girl opened and I could see how much she
>enjoyed seeing my son in his dress. I told her to be
>nice to him and she promised. There was one other girl
>who immediately complimented my son on his dress and
>the matching shirt and tights. The mother of the girl
>apologized for her daughter's blackmail attempts and
>after conversing for a moment I left.
>What is interesting: Girls seem to love when boys wear
>skirts, dresses, tights, etc.. My daughter thinks it's
>great, the two classmates of my son love it. I wonder
>why? The two girls today were both wearing pants
>again. If they like skirts and dresses so much, they
>could just wear them. Or am I missing the point?
>Greetings,
>Natalie

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