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Subject: Re: Introduction

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Connor

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Date Posted: 19:35:42 10/04/12 Thu
In reply to: Patterson J., Sr. 's message, "Introduction" on 14:53:11 09/27/12 Thu

Dear Mr. Patterson, I had big pleasure when read your introduction. I'm amazed but our families are almost similar. My wife and I growing up 3 sons (16, 14, and 12). Moreover, I help my sister-in-law (sister of my wife) who raising her son alone. He is almost 15 now and I'm for him "father's model". When she has problems with his behavior I make father's duty. He sometimes lives in our family long time and for our boys he isn't "cousin" but the same brother. From wife and me he gets the same kisses, hugs, spankings and baths as other boys.
Mr. Patterson, you told that stopped spanking PJ and Mark because they are 16. Alas, my oldest, Patrick, is 16 too but sometimes his behavior and acts are such stupid and foolish that good barebottomed spanking looks the best medicine for him. And I do it. On average he gets 1-2 times monthly and I don't see posibility to stop it. By the way, I myself got my last spanking from father, when I was 18. I had to accept it, although, I hated it then. Now I understand Dad was right and my some acts then were very wrong. I got stripped behind but it was minimum that I could get! My old man showed me what is leal father's duty and I try do as he would do on my place.
Mr. Patterson, I see you are educated man, moreover, pastor, and your opinion about raising of boys is important. By the way, our pastor considers spanking is important for boys only. He himself has 17-old-years twin-boys (they are friends of my Pat) and both get peach switches often enough yet.

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Patterson J., Sr. to Connor
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Date Posted: 10:38:55 10/17/12 Wed

It is good to meet someone in similar circumstances.

BTW, I support spanking of BOTH boys and girls. I just think opposite gender parents need to take precautions to guard the modesty of the child. Example, my wife does not spank the boys bare.

My last from MY Dad was three weeks before my 18th birthday.

As far as PJ and Mark, if I may be honest, yes they are 16 but spanking was just no longer working. They learned to suck it up and take the pain and then move on and do whatever they wanted. They are a year and a half before moving out and so the goal is to introduce more adult consequences to them. So far it is working. However, if they were just to do something so childish and silly as to warrant a spanking, I would have no issue taking the paddle out of retirement and they know this. Spanking is just no longer the go to punishment for them.

Caleb is an enigma. He turned 15 this past weekend. I have not needed to spank him in over a year. When he was 13, it seemed he lived with a perpetually sore rear and then, all of a sudden, he just stopped doing things to get in trouble. He had one minor issue this past year with his chores but certainly nothing I would have spanked him over. He was given a writing assignment and that worked for him. I just don't know if his spanking days are over or not. It depends on him.

Benji, like I said, still needs an occasional spanking.

Connor, it is good to have you here.

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Connor to Patterson J., Sr
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Date Posted: 22:29:27 10/18/12 Thu

Dear Mr.Patterson,
I answered you already but my post didn't appear here and I'm repeating it.

You told - " I support spanking of BOTH boys and girls."
I agree with you but I'm raising boys only. However, in my own childhood, my brother, I and our male-cousin were spanked by parents regularly enough. Two girl-cousins never were spanked (they parents considered it's only punishment for boys) and got grounding and corner-time. The other side, my wife, when she was growing, was spanked the same as both her brother, younger and older. Yes, she got less frequently than brothers and got her last about 16 but brothers got until 17-18. Nevertheless, if she deserved punishment, father spanked her the same as all children in family - in front siblings and on the bare.

Your opinion - "I just think opposite gender parents need to take precautions to guard the modesty of the child. Example, my wife does not spank the boys bare." -
In our family, where 4 boys are growing in our little house, we don't encourage big embarrassment among boys. The first, my wife and me think both parents have equal rights for children raising. Boys understand that I'm main spanker in family but, if I out of home what happens often enough, and any from boys need in emergency punishment, he gets mother's spanking instead mine. We don't accept opinion that mother can't see their own sons. If I spank boys, it's almost always in mother's presence. Moreover, our youngest, Timmy, is bathed by mom completely still, middle, Jeff, is supervised, and even our olders, Patrick and Andrew (nephew) are checked by her sometimes, if their cleanliness is doubtful. It's part of usual mother's care.

Mr.Patterson, last news about my boys. Patrick is nice after last spanking 10/03/12 and his behavior is excellent now. Timmy was spanked last Saturday for bad behavior in school. Jeff and Andrew were caught by Andrew's mom (my sister-in-law) for smoking and they both will be punished by me this Saturday. Indeed, boys are boys.

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