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Subject: Re: Behavior Charts Author: Connor [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 15:08:25 10/17/12 Wed In reply to: SL Sarah 's message, "Behavior Charts" on 20:04:09 10/06/12 Sat If any of my boys has bad grades in week or I get teacher's note about their bad behavior in school, it's reason for traditional Saturday spanking. Of course, before punishment we have family analyze why culprit did it. Spanking for bad grades is given if reason was lazyness only. The same with behavior. I ought to know real situation before my decision about son (or nephew) spanking. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Behavior Charts Author: Bill B [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:13:04 10/18/12 Thu Hi SL Sarah, I've posted about the behavior calendar that we use with our boys on the other forum. We like it for many reasons but certainly one of them is that it gives us all a good visual indicator of how behavior is going and being aware helps everyone to make changes for the better. We record misbehavior and issues in red and have different colors for the good stuff. You do have to really commit to it though, an incomplete record is not very useful. It can be a burden sometimes. Now the boys are old enough to mostly write things down that we tell them to record. As you are not strict, this would give you a way to simply note behavior and call attention to it so that problems could be corrected. Then if you saw patterns that needed to be rewarded or punished, you could do so after having time to reflect on it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]