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Subject: Re: Why bare?

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Connor to Beverly

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Date Posted: 17:22:14 10/04/12 Thu
In reply to: Beverly 's message, "Re: Why bare?" on 12:38:55 10/04/12 Thu

Dear Mrs.Beverly, it's naturally each family has own rules for raising of children, including methods of punishment. However, your complex of rules looks too complicated, at least, for me. My boys know, if they deserve punishment, they get on the bare bottoms and it's undisputable in our family. Guilty boy has to himself pull down his trousers and underpants and go over my knee. Any attempt of resisting ( even mumble something I'm too old for getting on the bare) is reason for a few adittionaly slaps - sometimes more than a few. It's old family wisdom - "guilty child gets on the bare bottom in front God and everyone." In my own childhood Mom and Dad told (and used!) it numerous times. Now I understand they were right, although, then I had other opinion.

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Russ
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Date Posted: 17:42:27 10/05/12 Fri

Beverly,

I've been following your concerns relative to the punishment of your son and have wondered if and how the issue has been resolved. Thanks for keeping us up to date.

Thank you also for indirectly addressing an issue that I've been facing of late with my 8 year old son preceding and during his punishment. He attempts to avoid his licking with a paddle by resisting my attempts to place him over my knee. Once secured over my knee he attempts to disrupt by bucking up and down as I administer the licks. Then, also, he attempts to deflect the paddle with his hand.

Concerning this, I like what you have posted in your Condition # 1. I especially like your emphasis upon voluntarily cooperating with the punishment. Removing one's own blue jeans in preparation to be spanked is really part and parcel of what it means to take a licking. A disobedient boy cannot undue what he has done, but he can demonstrate his contrition by willingly accepting and even cooperating with the punishment that he has earned.

Yes indeed, I do believe that your 5 conditions are both fair and workable. Do let us know how your son's punishments proceed in the future.

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