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Subject: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: ..... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 22:44:15 06/04/01 Mon Author Host/IP: jrc-cache8.jaring.my/161.142.112.8 This life really need luck... I don't know whether I can stand this anymore. I know this will sound ridiculous... but I really can't stand peoples breaking up. If only one or two couples it's OK but I'm facing a lot of them. It sadden me so much. I know in relationship there's up and down but I'm so sad and I wanted to cry when I heard the bestfriends of mine break up with her/his love one. I know that not many people can maintain their relationship till they get married, or even a marriage sometimes don't last long.. but it was so sad... As example this friend of mine, couple for more than five years and the guy leave her for no reason. And another story this guy... he loves her like hell... then she just leave him. God help me, I feel like I don't want to hear anymore 'couples breaking up news' it's so sad and gives you heartache. Plus maybe I keep thinking that maybe.... I will be next..???!!! God please Help.... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: atox [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:38:02 06/05/01 Tue Author Host/IP: nat22.maizuru-ct.ac.jp/202.19.105.22 assalamualaikum bos2 semua...... emmmm cam tu aaaa asam garam dlm kehidupan, terutama bab couple ni..... tapi ade satu cinta yg terpaling utama, Cinta Ngan Allah.....kita cinta betul2 kat Allah, Allah pasti semakin cinta, sayang, rapat dan lagi rapat ngan kita....bukan tu aja yg kita dapat....hidup kita pun lagi bermakna dan tenang sentiasa.....dan macam2 lagi aaah yg pasti kita dapat..... jadi....meh sesama kita pakat2 ikhlaskan kecintaan kita kat Allah yg terutama...insyaallah cinta2 yg lain pasti akan datang dengan penuh hikmat...... weih aku nak exam ngan interview tak lama lagi.....doakan kami yg nak exam ni.....okey la weih....Gud Lak semua....tata titi tutu

[> Subject: Re: help me Author: *broken hearted* [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:47:52 06/05/01 Tue Author Host/IP: jrc-cache8.jaring.my/161.142.112.8 this message really attracted my attention this morrning. why??coz i might be next whom breaking up.guys..please help me. need some advice here.i'm with this guy for almost 2 yrs but i can say that all through that period, happiness can be counted less than burdens and problems..such as family inteference..financial on his side..career on his side..and it seems that we're on the end of the relationship i really love him so much..he's the only love of my life and i swear that i will do anything for him to make him happy. all this while i only dedicate my life for him.god knows i've sacrificed for him A LOT!bak kata oranglah, biar diri sendiri menderita asalkan dia tak.but somehow sekarang im bored already. coz he never appreciate me. i've done a lot for him. biasalahkan apa benda baik yg kita buat mana ada orang give a damn shit about it tapi when we did mistakes, benda yg sebesar hama pun boleh nampak. we fought a lot tapi semua masalah dan gaduh2 tu tak pernah settle in peace coz he's the type yg hold the prinsip: forgive and forget-never mention about it again in the future.so semua masalah2 tu lama2 jadi burdens dalam hati and rasa nak pecah kepala dan jiwa fikir..last2 nilah jadinya..nak kata dah benci tapi masih sayang sepenuh hati tapi kalau turutkan rasa sayang..i realised yg the relationship has no future. so i've been avoiding him for quite sometime now. dont wanna talk or meet him. and he never gives up. keep calling and sometimes naik boring. dah byk kali i tried to break off with him tapi biasalah bila dah kena pujuk..baik balik. tapi this morning he called me (using anonymous number) and told me that he need to see me today-no matter what coz he wanted to settle the prob and maybe he will make up his decision today. and i agreed to meet. but the problem now is i'm afraid that i will not have the strenght to face him. breaking up is not as simple as what some people think. there might be loneliness..sadness..breakdown, coming along later. what should i do??its okay if u guys have no comment about this its just that i need to express what im feeling now to somebody..somehow it does make me feel better now..

[> [> Subject: Re: help me...only U can help Yourself Author: ..... [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:12:26 06/05/01 Tue Author Host/IP: jrc-cache8.jaring.my/161.142.112.8 Hi... and Assalamualaikum I never thought I would get this type of reply. I'm sorry to hear your relationship doesn't work out. But I tell you what, I do think he really loves you. It's just you have to work out what is wrong in your relayionship. And you have to remember whatever happen, if you go through good and bad times... Allah is always with you. AND... if you have nobody to turn to you can always contact me. But I do wish we keep ourself anonymous.... Wish you luck in this life... delyla_dan@hotmail.com

[> Subject: Re: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: Rurouni Kenshin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:23:58 06/06/01 Wed Author Host/IP: inktomi1-car.server.ntl.com/62.252.32.4 Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit... Buang yang keruh, ambil yang jernih... There was one sitution when God looked at this world and said, it is no better than a carcass swarmed with flies... Remember, this world is temporary... there is another infinite life waiting next and its what we do in this life that determines how we live in that next life... My point? Just don't take relationship seriously, I mean you're not husband and wife, right? If things doesn't work out, I dare say its a blessing in disguise, would u rather put up with a person as a spouse when u already know their vices? U'r choice... Like I said before, beware of sweet, wooing words, they can be fatal or down to earth sincere... Easier said than done... Remember... Bunga bukan sekuntum, Kumbang bukan seekor... If u really need guidance in life, turn to God, afterall, he creates us... this is analoguous to ade problem dengan computer, consult the person who creates the computer, coz he knows best!!! Wallahualam...

[> Subject: Re: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: kumbang [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:47:05 06/06/01 Wed Author Host/IP: imme-d9307871.pool.mediaWays.net/217.48.120.113 dear yg ada prob nak breaking up.. bercinta, pastu clash, tu perkara biasalah, alangkan yg dah bernikah pun boleh terbecerai..ni kan pulak takde hubungan apa2 yg halal lagi.. semua org nak disayangi dan menyayangi, tapi kita lupa utk ingat bhw kasih dan sayang itu perlulah dilandaskan kpd pegangan agama dan paling penting kepada Allah, jgn pulak salah faham kata saya ni kata org yg nak break up atau dah pun broke up tu tak ingat kat agama..bukan..cuma, whne it comes to cinta2 punya matter, cuba bawa bertenang, bykkan amal ibadat dan baca al-Quran, insyaAllah kita akan jumpa ketenangan, kalau dah bukan jodoh, byk kali berbaik pun akan terpisah juga..gadh, selisih faham tu semua dugaan dlm satu perhubungan, suami isteri pun ada gaduh juga, cuma bila kita hampir dgn Allah, selalu melakukan ibadah selalu minta petunjukNya, insyaAllah kita tak rasa sgt beban bila selisih faham dan selalunya everything end up to be good apa2 pun kalau hubungan masih belum ke ikatan perkahwinan, don't take it seriously sgt, kalau frust nanti, menonggeng, trust me, in a realtionship, pertama kene ada give and take, kepercayaan dan berkasihlah krn Allah, insyaAllah..jika ada panjang jodoh berkawan ..sampailah ke pernikahan.. apa2 pun jgn frust sgt, ..bak kata budak Jepun tu..Bunga bukan sekuntum, kumbang bukan seekor...

[> Subject: Re: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: cdan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:18:56 06/07/01 Thu Author Host/IP: brk-23-71.tm.net.my/202.188.23.71 serius shit......aku nak tujukan kepada broken hearted... kes u ni kan, macam familiar jer....tapi di mana ya....hmmm but, if u ask me lah kan, from my point of view.... it's dark!!!!!

[> Subject: Re: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: Gigabyte [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:34:37 06/08/01 Fri Author Host/IP: jhb-cache18.jaring.my/161.142.3.18 kau buatlah aper kau rasa betul setelah kau pikir masak2, ambil pendapat org lain, timbang - timbangkan, pikir susah senang yang kau dah lalui, kesannya, bla....bla....bla.... pastu kau buat keputusan dan kau lakukannya. pastu jgn regret. ok

[> [> Subject: Re: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: cdan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:07:11 06/10/01 Sun Author Host/IP: NoHost/210.186.53.76 yeah......that's it lah..ride on

[> Subject: Re: This Life Really Need Luck!!!! Author: Bee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:29:35 06/08/01 Fri Author Host/IP: imme-d93077f6.pool.mediaWays.net/217.48.119.246 Assalamualaikum, Kepada semua yg sedang bercinta, bakal nak bercinta ataupun yg dah putus bercinta.. jadikan sebagai renungan bersama-sama.. Cinta pada dunia, dunia akan pergi, Cinta pada manusia, manusia akan mati, Cintalah pada Allah kerana Dialah yang kekal abadi. Hari ini kita begitu asyik dengan cinta. Cinta pada harta, cinta pada dunia dan cinta pada kekasih. Sehinggakan Laila Majnun, Romeo dan Juliet menjadi idola. Kita juga mengaku cinta kepada yang Esa yang pada hakikinya tidak pernah terlintas di sanubari. Buang emak buang saudara kerana kasih diturutkan. Tapi kita kurang rasa cinta pada Yang Esa. Kita mengaku menyintai Allah tapi tak pernah melaksanakan tanggungjawab kepadaNya. Acap kali kita melafazkan cinta sehingga lalai untuk membuktikan cinta kita pada yang Esa. Sekadar sembahyang lima waktu yang kadang kala kita abaikan. Adakah itu bukti cinta kita pada Allah? Sekadar berpuasa lapar dan dahaga sahaja, ataupun sekadar mengeluarkan zakat atas desakan, itukah yang dipanggil cinta abadi kepadaNya? Amalan kita hanyalah ala kadar saja. Sedarlah amalan yang kita bangga-banggakan selama ini sebenarnya masih jauh lagi untuk membuktikan cinta pada Allah. Cinta sebenarnya ialah cinta yang dipenuhi keikhlasan begitu juga dengan amalan kita kepadaNya. Tanda-tanda cinta pada Allah: 1. Cinta pada kematian 2. Bermunajat kepada Allah 3. Sentiasa berzikir kepada Allah 4. Berjuang dijalan Allah 5. Melakukan ketaatan dirasakan nikmat 6. Tidak berduka dengan kehilangan sesuatu 7. Menundukkan nafsu 8. Menjalin kasih sayang sesama makluk 9. Takut berpaling daripada Allah. semoga semua boleh dpt petunjuk dr sedikit ayat ini. Wassalam.