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Aper hukumnya?

Author:
Crispy

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Date Posted: 02:45:51 06/28/01 Thu
Author Host/IP: NoHost/203.106.101.26

Aper hukumnya kiter memutuskan saudara? Aper yang dikatakan memutuskan saudara? Kalau mcm kiter clash ngan pakwe tuh, masuk tak kategori putuskan persaudaraan. Iyelah, biler kiter clash biasanya, kiter putuskan hubungan terus ngan orang tuh kan. Kalau putuskan tunang macam maner lak?

Saper yang terror, sudi2kan lah nak jawab soalan nih... hamba dah kompius sket.

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pendapat saya la

Author:
aidah
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Date Posted: 03:02:58 06/28/01 Thu
Author Host/IP: NoHost/202.188.205.84

Iyelah, biler kiter clash biasanya, kiter putuskan hubungan terus ngan orang tuh kan. Kalau putuskan tunang macam maner lak?
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ni pendapat aku la. hmm kut ye pun dah clash tak semestinya kena putuskan terus semua hubungan dgn orang tu. tu la yg tak betulnya. takkan sampai anggap kawan tu musuh, kalau jumpa pun tak bertegur sapa, kalau dia tegur kita pulak buat sombong, jemput ke majlis ke apa ke pun takmau datang. kalau macam tu lah yg berdosa kut? tapi ye lah i suppose it's not that easy especially kalau clash not on very good terms for both sides.
kalau bab putus tunang pulak, tu kira takde jodoh la. takde pulak rasanya Tuhan kata tak boleh buat camtu, kalau dah rasa tak boleh nak go on, takkan semata2 sbb dah bertunang mesti kena kawin kan? macam bercerai la kira in a sense, perkara yg halal tetapi dibenci.

[> Subject: Re: Aper hukumnya?

Author:
+_+
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Date Posted: 11:00:47 06/28/01 Thu
Author Host/IP: NoHost/161.139.124.73

pada pendapat akulah pulak kan...kalau clash ngan pakwe/makwe tu bukannya maknanya kita memutuskan saudara...kita still boleh terus kawan ngan dia cuma hubungan sebagai member/ kawan je la...ramai gak org yang aku jumpa dah clash ngan pakwe/makwe dia still contact lagi macam kawan2 biasa.. lagipun bila dah clash tu jangan lah sampai nak putus2 sedara pulak..kita kan org islam...umat islam semuanya bersaudara..lainlah kalau bila kau dah clash tu janganlah sampai nak putus sedara dgn pakwe tu...ala sedangkan org yang dah berkahwin pun boleh bercerai berai inikan pulak pakwe makwe betul tak?? aku cuma beri pendapat je..kalau rase2 tak sesuaiiii sorilah ok...ape2 pun aku harap kita semua janganlah memutuskan tali silaturrahim antara sesama umat islam ok...!!

[> Subject: Re: Aper hukumnya?
Author: noname [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 21:19:26 06/28/01 Thu Author Host/IP: NoHost/203.106.162.177 Hi! Long time no see? ahaks...ahakss...ahaks camni la.. nie quote dr readers digest Friendship is the finest balm for dissapoinment love Kire kalau putus-putus nih terus jela kawan baik2. Sbb kalau sesama umat islam kite nie bersaudara. kay lah bye...

[> Subject: Re: Aper hukumnya?

Author:
crispy
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Date Posted: 01:57:18 06/30/01 Sat
Author Host/IP: NoHost/210.186.45.172

Tenkiu for those yg sumbangkan idea..
Tapi nak tanyer u guys lagi nih..
Kalau org tuh putuskan hubungan ngan ex-bf dia pulak macam maner? Maksudnyer, b4 this diaorg kawan lagi lepas clash..
Tapi sbb this guy dah ader awek & dia tak nak lah kacau relationship diaorg, dia putuskan lah hubungan.
Reason dia is to make things better.. dia tak nak nanti org tersalah faham relationship dia ngan ex-bf dia tuh.
Kalau mcm tuh aper pulak pendapat korang? Is it the right thing to do or not?

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Re: Aper hukumnya?

Author:
gr99
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Date Posted: 23:30:45 06/30/01 Sat
Author Host/IP: ptl-cache6.jaring.my/161.142.1.6

argh.. ape yg susah sgt ni... of course that's the right thing to do! yes... i think u should break off with that guy. i mean, not talking to him anymore doesn't mean that you're memutuskan hubungan sesama islam. by this i mean, takdelah sampai tak tegur-menegur langsung. kalau dia tegur tu, tegur lah balik. tapi takyah lah nak baik2 sgt dgn dia kalau takut apa org lain kata. ok, get it? i mean.. if u're so worried about what other ppl say, then just keep away! by doing so, that doesn't mean u're memutuskan hubungan sesama islam. after all, ramai lagi ppl who are not your friends but they're still sedara seislam.

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Author: juzz me [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 20:26:36 07/02/01 Mon Author Host/IP: NoHost/203.106.101.201 Apasal lah yang sorang nih balas bukan main emotional sangat nih? Ilek ler, don't get carried away. But I do think that is the right thing to do. After all, korang 2org dah takder aper2 relationship pon. Life must go on!