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Subject: Re: umm...


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Date Posted: 06:57:39 10/31/01 Wed
In reply to: banky 's message, "Re: umm..." on 22:30:00 10/30/01 Tue
 ok...i was just commenting on the poem....didn't know all this personal drama existed on this board. lemme give some advice from an old sage....if he cheats on her with you, he will cheat on you with someone else. now i am not saying this is a law that doesn't have exceptions, but lets be serious....and as far as guys being jerks. yeah, in a girl's opinion, i guess they are. it took me 25 years to even come up with some sort of a theory to figure guys out. first of all, there is the testostorone issue. ok...they can't help that. that makes them think with the little head, not the big head. just remember that boys will always think like boys. they will never understand where you (as a girl) are coming from. they take things at face value and don't overanalyze (as us girls tend to do). things that mean the world to us, don't even occur to them. boys aren't bad....they really aren't. they just aren't girls. that's what makes them special i guess. and don't get me wrong. i have had my heart shattered and slammed and broken so many times. i have been the other woman and the girlfriend. i have had my best friends tell me they love me only to steal my virtuousity and then not speak to me the next day. but ya know, they sure can be fun too. about 75 percent of my best friends are guys, so i am learning to understand them more. and it helps me realize what to expect from them. but as far as the cheating goes....kick 'em to the curb baby! period. first of all, to spare you future heartbreak. second of all, in this day and age, you cannot be in a monogomous relationship without trust. and that trust has been shattered. all the love in the world can't piece shattered trust back together. just cut it off here (the relationship, not any part of his anatomy) and try to salvage a friendship (or not if you are still pissed). ya know? if you guys want to argue any of my points, holla back at me...lemme know what you think. but ya know what...life is too short to stress the bullshit. later peeps...and remember...tomorrow is another day.
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