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Date Posted: 06:27:42 01/17/20 Fri
Author: Marcus
Subject: Re: husband discipijne
In reply to: Pat 's message, "husband discipijne" on 08:01:08 06/11/18 Mon

>This is my second marriage.Like Anne's husband Bob has
>a psychological block rendering him defenceless
>against women.I
>have been married before and do not have to concern
>myself with the impact of his discipline on
>children.Though I did not know his vulnerability on
>marrying him, when i found out about it I realised I
>could be really master him.It appealed to me.
>I realised it was pointless imposing rules if he could
>ignore them in my absence. Luckily I had a gossipy
>neighbour who worked at the same place as him.I Told
>him to offer her a lift to and from work.I then took
>the first opportunity to pull his pants down and
>reduce him to blubbing across my knee in front of her.
>It worked. I told her I was the boss he needed
>discipline and I had layed down my rules for him and
>that he would be spanked or caned for any breach of
>those rules I witnessed or were reported to me.I also
>told her he got a reminder spanking every thursday in
>addition to any punishment he received.
>As expected I got the odd complaint and reports he had
>misbehaved,including one from his female boss. That
>response has built up. Initially people probably
>thought he wanted the discipline, but now his
>behaviour is transformed. They know the discipline is
>real and enough of them have him punished because he
>has broken the rules or has upset them.
>I do not respect him but i do love him.Nevertheless
>the fact he dreads being spanked and doing it makes me
>get a kick out of my power and authority, proving he
>is mine,and the fact I am in total control makes me
>deterned to be really strict and treat him as my slav.
This more of a thought or question. Is there more going on here with the no respect comment? I understand from my experience that these relationships are more common than not. I came from a culture where ladies were not afraid to put their full grown sons over their knee or their sons friends. I found out later they were not afraid to put others husbands over their knee with the blessing of the wife or g/f. If you behaved badly even into your 30’s or 40’s where I came from you could get your bare butt tanned. I can’t help but feel there’s more going on in the relationship paradigm that includes more than just a disrespect for his taking discipline from you. I won’t say what I’ve seen before in these kind of relationships but an FLR can be just one part of a more comprehensive part of the relationship. I won’t say anymore only because the best I could do is make an assumption and that’s not right. But after reading what you said it made me think about others I’ve talked to that confided in me on their FLR’S. I’m not judging at all as much as I’m curious to learn more about these FLR’S.
It’s a possibility because I was 8-10 years younger than my wife I was involved in an FLR that others enforced (her g/f’s) on me. So my curiosity is also borne out of a real life experience and that no respect comment made me realize that because I was much younger this may have been in play and I was oblivious to it. I was barely 22 years of age and my g/f was 30 years old in 77’. So reading your article really reopened some wounds but they needed to be reopened so I can close the book on it.

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