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Date Posted: 02:58:22 03/02/18 Fri
Author: Rita
Subject: Re: Domestic Discipline
In reply to: Judith 's message, "Re: Domestic Discipline" on 02:39:48 03/01/18 Thu

We have two canes, a thicker one that is used for my oldest and me and a thinner one for the younger children.

There are a few other people that know. My parents, my sister and my two closest friends. My family is ok with this, my father actually encourage my husband when we got engaged. My friends were skeptical, but they see that it works for us so they accept it.

>Is the same cane used with you and your children? Do
>other people know you are spanked by your husband?
>
>>Yes, my children now that their father spanks me
>>occasionally. They never witness the spanking itself,
>>this is done in private in our bedroom. But they have
>>seen me fetch or put back the cane and also have
>>noticed the marks. We don't actively discuss the
>>subject with or in front of our children, but if one
>>of them asks a question we will answer it honestly.
>>Sometimes our kids try to comfort them, when they
>>notice that I've been spanked, the same way I comfort
>>them after they got a spanking. Lately my oldest
>>started to discourage me from behavior that she thinks
>>might earn me one. The other day we went shopping and
>>she talked me out of buying an expensive dress, that
>>was twice my quarterly budget fort clothes.
>>
>>
>>>Do your children know your husband spanks you? How do
>>>they feel about it if they do?
>>>
>>>>Spanking has been a normal part of my entire live. I
>>>>was spanked as a child, we do spank our children now
>>>>and I'm still spanked by my husband when I break the
>>>>rules we agreed on. I know this isn't the Zeitgeist,
>>>>but it work for us. How can I punish my children
>>>>knowing, that I didn't live up to the standards I
>>hold
>>>>them to.
>>>>
>>>>>For those mothers who spank their children...were
>>you
>>>>>spanked growing up also? are you spanked by your
>>>>>husband now?
>>>>>
>>>>>Brit
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