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>Cora, > >What Mary said is a lot of what I agree with, as well. >Embarrassment is a natural byproduct with spankings >for the children when they get to be older. No child, >especially one in their mid-teens, likes to be >reminded they are not too old to have Mommy bare their >bottom, turn them over her knee and give them a sound >spanking. > >All spankings were embarrassing for my children when >they got in that 10-12 yrs range, especially for my >son. He many times desperately pleaded for me to not >bare his bottom or turn him over my knee. To please >let him lay on his bed, or over the back of the couch >when I spanked him in the living room (which happened >most of the time). He even told me outright "It's so >embarrassing, Mom. Makes me feel like a little baby." >But of course, I never stopped spanking that way, with >him or his sisters. And, besides my strong belief of >bare bottom and over the lap spanking, it was because >of how much he hated it was one of the reasons I >continued to spank him that way. To remind him that he >"isn't" as grown up as he thinks he is and that he >certainly isn't too old to have me bare him and put >him over my knee if his behavior still requires it. > >Were there spankings that were much more embarrassing >for them than just having me bare and put them over my >lap? Oh yes, absolutely, especially when I spanked >them in front of others. Many here know I have never >had an issue spanking in front of others when the >children have found it ok to act up in front of them. >And there has never been a restriction on age or >gender in that regards. There were a few public >spankings that I knew were especially embarrassing for >each of them, but there was never one that they hated >the most. At least not that I'm aware of. However, all >of them made it clear to me, many times, how >embarrassing it was when others saw or heard their >spankings. > >But my feelings share Mary in that regards. I do feel >embarrassment is a part of the spanking, even when I >have done so in front of others. I am also not >concerned at all on their modesty or embarrassment >when they have earned themselves a spanking. As I have >told them, it was their behavior that put them in this >position in the first place. If they want to avoid >being spanked, including where at times others can see >or hear, then they need to learn to behave. It was an >answer they never liked hearing, but my children >eventually did learn. > > >Sarah
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