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Subject: Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness


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Cherie
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Date Posted: 07:50:53 08/08/23 Tue
In reply to: Siobhan 's message, "Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectiveness" on 13:11:50 08/06/23 Sun

Siobhan,

Good for you posting this, yes let's do this one of my favorite subjects.

I always have and always will be the one that does the baring. When I bare my boy’s bottom for their spanking or when I spank one of my nephews or nieces, it is a task I perform only with them positioned over my lap so as to maximize the embarrassment factor in my actually witnessing their bottom's transition from clothed to bare. I feel it is one of the most potent features: the embarrassment attached to the methodical, maternal baring of a backside.

I do lower their underpants/panties methodically. They can still expect to have his or her underpants or panties taken down for a session over my lap no matter how old or big he or she thinks they are. Embarrassment is a byproduct of being spanked bare not the reason or focus. I believe it shows that I am in charge and I can and will bare their bottom and spank.

As I have said before, this is something I got from another spanking mom of 2 boys years ago and never forgot it, “a boy's underpants are the dividing line between the desperate retention of his delusions of autonomy and the harsh reality of his behavioral accountability.” Who better to take them down than his mom who most likely taught him to pull them up.

When they were much younger 3-6 I would quickly get them bare and over my lap to spank, then I started making it more of a ritual barring with purpose, taking my time.

I scold as I undo and pull their pants/shorts down and off while he stands unhappily but obediently before me. Even still with my boys being 16 and 19 it is still done as when they were 8 and it will be this way until they no longer need me to spank.

A quick move to the side of my right knee, and he's down and over my lap with the mattress or couch cushion beneath him, making sure he is just where I want him, right arm pinned to his lower back. Then it is the methodical, maternal baring of a boy's backside as I slowly lower his underpants, it is the same way for my nieces panties and nephews underpants. I have never deviated from pants and underpants, panties being taken down just far enough to leave them bare from his waist to the knees.

Here is what I have spanked for a good many years now. With my hand it depends, I have a few ways that I spank. I may give very fast sharp stinging hand spanks for about 30 seconds to a min. then very hard slower spanks 1 a sec. for as long as I think it's needed. Then back to the fast hand spanks or spank with my hand at a steady quick pace and hard throughout or with my hand I may just spank as fast as I can with shorter strokes for the speed but still hard.

With the brush I spank slower, a steady pace and not nearly as hard as with my hand, I mix it up make sure the entire bottom and sit spots received equal time with the brush. I do slow it down a bit as I go back and forth with random swatting and picking a spot and giving a good 5-6 rapid spanks in one spot during the spanking. Then going back to random swatting, then picking another spot, and so on. For those that don't know I learned this brush technique from Sarah and Mary when I first added it to my spankings back in June 2019.

I wholeheartedly agree with what has been said on this forum in the past, they have to hate our spankings, they have to cry and cry hard and long during and after we have finished spanking, I too need to hear that uncontrollable crying to know my message has been received. There is plenty of tears and snot here as well with uncontrollable crying and a good spanking dance after with no modesty for a while. I spank until I feel the child/older teen has received their needed and deserved punishment. I will say I do believe a spanking is supposed to be loud, long and thorough.

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Re: Spanking patterns, rituals; advantages, disadvantages and spanking effectivenessPaige12:24:35 08/08/23 Tue


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