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Subject: Re: Which mothers here have spanked sons at 18yo and over?

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Sarah to Mark
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Date Posted: 17:35:20 04/03/25 Thu
In reply to: MarkW to Sarah 's message, "Re: Which mothers here have spanked sons at 18yo and over?" on 12:56:17 04/03/25 Thu

Mark,

Ah, that very much debatable word, adulthood. 18 is considered to be an adult in many areas for the US, as well. But society needs that. They need to set a number where you are now considered an 'adult' for their laws, even though many children may just not be there yet mentally.

As it has been said here more than once by many of the Moms, including myself, when the children have complained about being 'too old!" for spankings, an age is just a number. You don't magically become 'too old' to be turned over Mommy's knee just because you turn a year older. You need to show that you are responsible and mature enough, and through your behavior, you no longer need spankings. And if they still haven't shown that at 18, then they still need to continue.

In regards to spanking my nieces and nephews, my middle daughter up to 18 and if I need to continue to spank Andy and Derek at 18 (and beyond), it's all about love, trust and respect. With all of them, we are family, even with Andy and Derek. As I have said, they are very much like second sons to me. And they very much look at me like another Mom(my). They not only have come to love me (like me with them), but they trust and respect me with their care, as well. However much they may not like how I may handle it sometimes.

And I have of course known and loved my nieces and nephews since they were babies and spanked them from when they were preschoolers (3 yrs old). Much like Andy and Derek, they trusted and respected my authority implicitly with them, even if it meant when I sometimes had to spank them. So there was no hesitation on their end (excepting hating it) when Aunt Sarah gave them a spanking in their late teens. So where you may feel it is a lot, or out of the ordinary with how many children I've spanked at 18+, it has just been expected as part of our family. Even the children have had no resentment. To them, it's just part of how they were raised. Keep in mind, my sisters also spanked at that age with their children, as well as with my own on lesser occasions, as well.

Sarah

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>Mark, > >Ah, that very much debatable word, adulthood. 18 is >considered to be an adult in many areas for the US, as >well. But society needs that. They need to set a >number where you are now considered an 'adult' for >their laws, even though many children may just not be >there yet mentally. > >As it has been said here more than once by many of the >Moms, including myself, when the children have >complained about being 'too old!" for spankings, an >age is just a number. You don't magically become 'too >old' to be turned over Mommy's knee just because you >turn a year older. You need to show that you are >responsible and mature enough, and through your >behavior, you no longer need spankings. And if they >still haven't shown that at 18, then they still need >to continue. > >In regards to spanking my nieces and nephews, my >middle daughter up to 18 and if I need to continue to >spank Andy and Derek at 18 (and beyond), it's all >about love, trust and respect. With all of them, we >are family, even with Andy and Derek. As I have said, >they are very much like second sons to me. And they >very much look at me like another Mom(my). They not >only have come to love me (like me with them), but >they trust and respect me with their care, as well. >However much they may not like how I may handle it >sometimes. > >And I have of course known and loved my nieces and >nephews since they were babies and spanked them from >when they were preschoolers (3 yrs old). Much like >Andy and Derek, they trusted and respected my >authority implicitly with them, even if it meant when >I sometimes had to spank them. So there was no >hesitation on their end (excepting hating it) when >Aunt Sarah gave them a spanking in their late teens. >So where you may feel it is a lot, or out of the >ordinary with how many children I've spanked at 18+, >it has just been expected as part of our family. Even >the children have had no resentment. To them, it's >just part of how they were raised. Keep in mind, my >sisters also spanked at that age with their children, >as well as with my own on lesser occasions, as well. > > >Sarah
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